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Q: My girlfriend snapchats pics with a guy friend, with the caption "bf".
My girlfriend snapchats pics with a guy friend, with the caption "bf". I trust her, but it bothers me that she gets cheek to cheek with another dude and even jokingly calls him her bf. Would that upzet upset you? Am I wrong?
9 years 1 week ago in Relationships - China
Was it this one?
Drop it she was never your girlfriend to begin with.
Was it this one?
Drop it she was never your girlfriend to begin with.
It's time to move on. Consider this a learned lesson.
If you stay with her, you're setting yourself up for future heartache.
BF could be for "Best friend" the guy could be gay.
Communication is the key to successful relationship my friend... 
SpongeBob:
LOL. thanks. that kinda make sense..maybe I should take a pic with a girl and call it gf...and if she explained it using best friend...i'll say she's my good friend...
LOL...nowadays, as we all know, more and more Chinese are trying to be trolls but, recently, they're not successful Happy everyday to those who cannot recognize a troll..
coineineagh:
@SpongeBob: Sinobear is pointing out some filler expressions that often end up in a Chinese person's written English stories: nowadays, as we all know, more and more, recently, Happy everyday. They're dead giveaways. Sometimes he jumps to conclusions too early, but in this case I think he's right.
Sinobear:
This is an English forum where we use English, not Bingo.
By using the correct tense in written or oral English, one can very clearly indicate time (e.g. last month, last week, yesterday, today, tomorrow, next week, next month). Chinese have latched on to 'recently' as a catch-all to avoid defining a specific time (lazy researching) along with other fillers and empty expressions in order to avoid getting to the point and supporting their point directly. One should employ brevity and be concise - generalities and lack of supportable evidence is the hallmark of Chinese writing.
thank you, I got your pointwith so much social media, everyone wants to pretend they are well know and have many friends, so they post all kinds of garbage, to say 'look at me'....maybe innocent, maybe she has a need for attention! does she have many photos posted, if so this is only a drop in the bucket...no need to worry.
"Move on, let go" - here is my advice, even if I am female.
Unless you can talk with her and prove that she was only joking in an innocent way. (I dont think so)
Do a "goose-gander" experiment with her. Find a woman. do some cheek to cheek picts, and label her your gf. See if she is ok with that. She prob wont be. so then you can say to her "now you can cut that BS out that you do." simple. easy. problem solved.
I agree with Little-Spoon, I would NOT believe that she is only joking in an innocent way. Perhaps she is, or perhaps by BF she does mean "best friend", but it seems more likely that you are being played.
