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Q: Problem of women juding me.

My collegues are two average looking women 5 years older than me.They kept telling me that I am nothing pretty.But other ppl they dont think so.what do these two women  want?'

And obviously I got a young skin and they got a lot of wrinkles around their eyes,their skin and one looks strong and a little bit fat,another one gets a fat part as well and the funny thing is one of the woman told another older women's skin is much better than me.lol.Whay do they want?

They kept telling me in the office ,which annoyed me,what do they really want?Obviously ppl think they are nothing pretty and special,and they kept doing this to me.They ruined my working mood.One woman is my boss's daughter.

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Victoria, I think that these women are obviously envious of your skin, from what you told me. They want to become you by wearing your perfect skin. They obviously were not born criminals, but made ones by years of systematic abuse. My advice is that you should put the lotion on your skin, or else you get the hose again.

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Stop worrying what others think about you. As long as you behave nicely, then all is well. 

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Ask them if its about jealousy or just being mean.

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If you like where you work and you are bothered by these other woman. the best thing to do is to put a curse on them!!! 

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Why do you worry about what other WOMEN think of you? Women are often 'catty' this way. You should only think about how MEN perceive you! I am certain you are not planning to 'marry' a woman.

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Victoria, I'm getting tired of your ridiculous stories. It also involves 'What does she want'? My first guess is: Nothing. They don't want anything from you. Also, I'm sure you are not innocent in this. You talk about people judging you and then you go and judge the sh*t out of them. Calling them fat and wrinkly etc. I'm not sure what your purpose on this site is but I think you've missed the mark. The majority of the responses you get are sarcastic and condescending which, judging by your comments on them, you haven't picked up on.

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Did this start with you asking if you are pretty at work? I think they want to wear your skin, so they won't have wrinkles and can be beautiful.

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my advice is never worry what people think about you.

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Victoria, I think that these women are obviously envious of your skin, from what you told me. They want to become you by wearing your perfect skin. They obviously were not born criminals, but made ones by years of systematic abuse. My advice is that you should put the lotion on your skin, or else you get the hose again.

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just turn a blind eye to them,and surely they will stop judging you later ,dont you think? you cannot control external events but you can learn to control your reaction to those events and thereby be happy

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you keep asking questions here that are either:

 

1) not questions

2) could be answered better by talking to the people directly. how do we know what they are thinking?

 

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Lets make yoghurt together

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u are soooooo damn victorious victoria, i like u soooo damn much so u need not to care about what they say ok? so stay cool and remember the rule of life, everyone including your immediate friends and some members of your family always want you to do well, but not better than them, so learn it, keep in and live with it muah!

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Well, thanks Vic.  Thanks a lot.  I've just come home from a night of enthusiastic drinking only to find myself having read all of the above.  And what have I learnt?  That I'm in serious need of a good uppercut.

 

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I think they are just older versions of you.

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Victoria, do you genuinely want to get along with other women? You really seem to care about, and crave the company of, men, much more highly.  

 

I don't think it's likely that, as you seem to be suggesting, they dislike you for being more attractive than them, I suspect it's more an attitude thing. I have worked with many women, younger and older, more and less attractive than me. We've always got along - in fact, my female colleagues have always been super supportive.

 

If you want to get along with women try seeing them as people. Big-note yourself less (it's a deeply unappealing character trait, as sorrel rightly told you a few weeks back). Pay other people compliments when they look good rather than dwelling on your own alleged attractiveness. You might be amazed at the results - and one of your friends might just introduce you to that 'foreign prince' you so desperately desire. 

 

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You said you told these women how some men say you are pretty, so already you are saying "look at me how wonderful I am". This is a common aspect in all your postings here, the craving to be the centre of attention. Then you wonder why they turn on you like they have, you bought it upon yourself. The longer you post here the more desperate you appear, you clearly have very little in the way of social skills and are just dreaming of the day when Mr Rich Tall Handsome foreigner will whisk you off to his castle and treat like the queen you so desire to be. I've got news for you Victoria, life isn't like that, we all make compromises and we all have to get along with people who. sometimes, we don't particularly like. You really do need to grow up, like a lot of young Chinese women you act more like a young teenage girl from back home. Also, if your avatar is really you, then you are NOT that pretty, just grow up and accept it.

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I know what I want... I want you to STFU and GTFO! 

 

Sorry but you are quite annoying lol. 

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a woman with class or good manners would not publicly use the language Victoria is using on this site when commenting on posts. public manners reveal the character of a person.

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I just ate a pizza. A whole one.

 

Can anyone give me some attention, please? I'm really craving being the center of attention right now. Let's talk about my pizza.

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Anyone notice how Ma****a's posts stopped around the time good ol' tricky Vic started posting a lot of stuff?

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Advanced delusionary schizophrenia with involuntary narcissistic rage.

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OK dearie let me a share a few personal ideas, woman-to-woman, based upon experience.

 

1.  First, do botox.  Find a good qualified dermatologist and get yourself treated.  It worked wonders for me.  But you should do it only under supervision and only in a really qualified hospital.

 

2.  In my own case, when the botox treatments no longer did the trick, I went to a really good hospital in Shanghai -- I will share the name with you privately -- and had a facelift.  It really worked nicely.  It rejuvenated me and it took all the dark patches off the skin and returned to a nice white milky state.

 

3.  Finally, since I trusted the doctor in Shanghai so much, six months later I had a boob lift done.  It was really great.  No implants, nothing dangerous.  Really great and I can still wear a bikini.

 

4.  Use only the best Shiseido comestics on your face.  They are terribly expensive but they are the best in the world.

 

5.  Ignore your colleagues.

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