it's hard to tell it out clearly,one suggestion is makeing more chinese friends and chanting with all ur friends day by day u will be good at it
 if u want u can do it from here

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QQ?

Ok.  First off, QQ is pretty much a virus.  If you install this piece of crap software on your computer, I have no pity for you.  It is next to impossible to remove, it invades about 30 areas of your WINDOWS registry, and it constantly scans your computer and reports what it finds to "somewhere".  If you are using QQ for business, A.)  You are Chinese and don't know any better, or B.)  You are bad at business.

There are hundreds of social events for business almost every week here in China.  Go to those.  Meet people in real life.

Or join LinkedIn.  There are social networks for business out there.  Find them, join them, and then get people's Skype connections (that's what people use outside of China).  QQ is a horrible, horrible, HORRIBLE atrocity on the internet.

Install QQ at your own risk, but even for the "international" version, do yourself a favor and actually read the license terms and agreements.  I am one of the 3 people on Earth that actually do.  If allowing the Chinese government the right to access your computer at any time and for what ever reason sounds awesome to you, install QQ.  It's hidden in there, but that's what you agree to.

Enjoy!

I added an answer by accident someone want to tell me how to get rid of it 

Don't use QQ. As has already been pointed out, it fills your computer with viruses and worms. Furthermore, if anyone even puts a flashdrive in your computer, BOOM! They got it too. Use sype like a big boy.

if anyone want to try this "horrible software" ,you can contact with me. my QQ number is 270031189 ,welcome to chat. but you need identify yourself first  and tell me you come from this froum.