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Q: Recognising narcissistic personality disorder
My mother has narcissistic disorder. I grew up with little patience because of dealing with her. I'm serious here.
The GF I write to does not answer questions often. I don't ask many. But even little questions often get unanswered. I use a translator to write to her and she does the same. I do not like to reapeat myself.
Does the GF have a bit of narcissitic disorder or is it just a culture or language thing. I know Chinese seems very simple. Or do I just need long winded answers to understand?
12 years 22 weeks ago in Relationships - China
I have thes problem too. Many times, quesions will be unaswered, not just ignored but treated as if they were never made. It can be frustrating.
to be honest i think society here causes many women here to have the disorder. those behaviors you describe are common. you must search long and hard for a woman who is different
crimochina:
its not culture or language, they are careful about what questions they answer , it seems everything is about deception here
thedude:
crimo...I think you hit the nail on the head! Deception and outright lies.....and just ignoring questions they don't like.
crimochina:
somewhat the same with women who grew up in strict religious families
In my experience anything they do not want to answer, they will avoid at all costs. My favorite is after a question she says "no why" as her way of saying she will not answer. They are an enigma wrapped in a riddle, and will say whatever they think they need to, to string you along....be very careful.
GuilinRaf:
The dreaded "no why". It is like the equally dreaded western version: "because!"
This English is so mess...what do you want to say?..how do you gf answer you with a mess mind like yourself?...
Chinese girls don't like to answer questions which sound ridiculous and unreasonable....
crimochina:
do you have a boyfriend? what do you do for fun? these are unreasonable questions?
TedDBayer:
My questions are not much, certainly not unreasonable If you had a brain you would know that the questions just do not register. Remember I'm white so woman is treated well. My English is fine and my mind is great. I have a very high IQ. You'd never match wits with me.
I'm sorry that you can't get a white guy and you're so sour. Get over it and quit posting your mindless dribble.
It is because they are disrespectful and unprofessional. For example you ask a question by SMS, they will not answer and ignore it, but if they ask you a question then you need to answer ASAP or they will say in a SMS 5 min. later. " Why you don't answer?"
Here they call it "Face thing". I call them "freaking retards." who loose more face then gain some.
It's all in education.
