Girls seem to think it's cute but they don't realize that any guy with half a brain is just trying not to vomit on her when she's playing that cutesy-pie, Shirley Temple rubbish.

If I had a girl who pulled this stuff I would explain the first time she did it that it is not acceptable for an adult to act like a spoilt little kid. The second time she tried to pull it off she would be looking for a new boyfriend. My wife cannot understand why some act like this either. There are plenty of ways for a girl to appear cute, but sa jiao is certainly not one of them.

Sa Jiao is the way some girls act like a baby.For example,they don't say chi fan (have dinner) ,instead,they say chi fan fan.The same goes to shui jiao jiao (shui jiao ,sleep), ni zhe ge huai dan or ni hao huai wo (you bad guy).Even some guys do the same to their girlfriends or wives.I would be glad If my girlfriend do this just for a few times for fun,but i would run away if she acts like this for too many times.bu yao zhe yang zi ma!

My wife doesn't do this for two reasons.

1. She knows I find it totally unacceptable (and she agrees).

2. If she wants anything if we have the money all she has to do is ask.

why another thread about "sa jiao"?

there is some already, just use "search" before "ask" 

You Sa Jiao more than any woman I met. My reaction is usually just to ignore them, alright I did throw one naked out of my place, just depends how bad it is. Chinese women have a temper like fire, one woman  told me that, she also told me never trust a Chinese woman.

My wife does it but only when she knows the outcome would be the same whether she does it or not. It's cute then. She's pregnant now and chances are that when she sa jaios - she gets what she wants. When our baby arrives I wonder if the sa jaio gets ramped up tho? 

One of my friends had the most adorable sa jiao. She would act cute a lot, but it didn't seem to be used to manipulate anyone, so I thought it wasn't a bad thing. It usually made me smile.