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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Sex in China without having a girlfriend, just fantasy?
I'm new in this country (3 months) and everyone has told me that chinese girls are really traditional. It looks like it's impossible to enjoy with girls without planning on getting married...Everytime I tried to get closer with a Chinese girl I saw the wedding coming so I had to escape.
What's your experience? Is it possible to know a girl in a disco and have fun without thinking on nothing else?
11 years 17 weeks ago in Relationships - China
OHH
this is tooooo easy
the title alone just begs reply
however I will bite my bottom lip and let this one through to the Keeper
now lets see who will be the first to have fun with this
Three months? It normally takes about three days.
grimya:
Ok so let's assume that it has been just bad luck !
Tonight I strike back, let's see how it gose ;)!
Equilateral triangles are into the casual stuff.
Isosceles - too traditional by far.
MissA:
Surely it's the scalene the boys should be looking for - no rules!
Just visit one of those pink light massage parlors.
But really...if you live in a first tier city these girls are everywhere...just frequent the expat clubs and bars...they are there for a reason!
What? what are you doing wrong? The stories you heard about plentiful casual sex are true. Don't give up! Keep trying. 'Traditional' only means they prefer traditional sex, no whips and handcuffs. You know. You need to change your game, player.
Traditional girls , ha? That just means they don't like you. I have a suggestion, get some flour and apply it to your skin and go out. Being that white really turns the girls on. You'll have them chasing you down the street. They will be lining up in the hall of your apartment to see you. No problem. I had to climb down my balcony to escape many nights.
Where did you come from, Tibet? If you were a foreigner, every second person you meet on the street wants to be your friend by going for tea or helping you meet pretty girl. Chinese people are very friendly and helpful.
If it is really an emergency try the
LAR:
Bro,
"If you.......................................pretty girl." Now that is some SERIOUS B******T! :o Yuk yuk!! lol.
Don't go too far, man. Just go to the shop downstairs your appartment, ask the girl shopkeeper to buy you condoms, take a look, then say you are worried they may be too small for you! She will be so curious to get first hand experience of what you have. So in a single trip to the shop, you will kill two birds with one stone (girl & condom).
It usually takes about three months to get your groove when you first arrive. But there's loads of girls looking for one-nighters, man. But don't lead any of them on. Chinese girls seem to take things harder than western girls. I was dating one girl and thought it was just casual, but she got serious and I had to break it off before it got more serious and it really sucked cause she was a real sweetheart.
First, I want you to know that the message below is written by a woman (not a Chinese one though).
Many girls in China also want to have fun. But fun to them means not only sex. They are curious about your culture & your country & they do want to communicate.
I see my students both male & female goof off during the winter break not knowing where to invest themselves. So, show your lady a good time, take her out to dinner, buy her flowers. chocolates, maybe strawberries. Take her to the movies, buy protection. Before sex have a conversation with her: tell her what you feel, that's why you want to have close relationship with her. Explain that you're not ready for marriage & you think she is too young to give up her freedom & to become a fat housewife with five screaming ankle-biters. Show her respect & be honest with her. I don't think Chinese girls want to get married, have babies & give up their careers & studies. But they all have needs. Good luck!
MissA:
"A fat housewife with five screaming ankle-biters" - you pretty much just summed up all my nightmares in one sentence.
giadrosich:
Hehehe. We also call them either "curtain climbers" or "rug-rats" where I'm originally from.
if you dont mind some cougars and leftovers , dateinasia dot com is not to bad and had several blissful encounters when i first arrived in china, but now its holy deadlock, marriage, ball and chain forever, good luck
ambivalentmace:
well actually, many nice filipino ladies are working in china supposedly as maids but really full time english teachers for rich chinese couples wanting the kid to have an advantage over other students. this might be your best non marriage encounter option
but this would be in the big cities and depending on your age , hanging with the international students at the biggest university in your town is a good start.
if your having trouble with girls perhaps find yourself a wingman