OHH

this is tooooo easy

the title alone just begs reply

however I will bite my bottom  lip and let this one through to the Keeper

now lets see who will be the first to have fun with this

...maybe the answer is a close as your right hand

Are you in a parallel universe China?

Three months? It normally takes about three days.

Equilateral triangles are into the casual stuff.

Isosceles - too traditional by far.

Just visit one of those pink light massage parlors.  

But really...if you live in a first tier city these girls are everywhere...just frequent the expat clubs and bars...they are there for a reason!

What? what are you doing wrong? The stories you heard about plentiful casual sex are true. Don't give up! Keep trying. 'Traditional' only means they prefer traditional sex, no whips and handcuffs. You know. You need to change your game, player.

Traditional girls , ha? That just means they don't like you. I have a suggestion, get some flour and apply it to your skin and go out. Being that white really turns the girls on. You'll have them chasing you down the street. They will be lining up in the hall of your apartment to see you. No problem. I had to climb down my balcony to escape many nights.

 Where did you come from, Tibet? If you were a foreigner, every second person you meet on the street wants to be your friend by going for tea or helping you meet pretty girl. Chinese people are very friendly and helpful.

If it is really an emergency try the

Don't go too far, man. Just go to the shop downstairs your appartment, ask the girl shopkeeper to buy you condoms, take a look, then say you are worried they may be too small for you! She will be so curious to get first hand experience of what you have. So in a single trip to the shop, you will kill two birds with one stone （girl & condom）.

It usually takes about three months to get your groove when you first arrive. But there's loads of girls looking for one-nighters, man. But don't lead any of them on. Chinese girls seem to take things harder than western girls. I was dating one girl and thought it was just casual, but she got serious and I had to break it off before it got more serious and it really sucked cause she was a real sweetheart.  

 First, I want you to know that the message below is written by a woman (not a Chinese one though).

Many girls in China also want to have fun. But fun to them  means not only sex. They are curious about your culture & your country & they do want to communicate.

  I see my students both male & female goof off during the winter break not knowing where to invest themselves.  So, show your  lady a good time,  take her out to dinner, buy her flowers. chocolates, maybe strawberries. Take her to the movies, buy protection. Before sex have a conversation with her:  tell her what you feel, that's why you want to have close relationship with her. Explain  that you're not ready for marriage & you think she is too young to give up her freedom & to become a fat housewife with five screaming ankle-biters. Show her respect & be honest with her.  I don't think Chinese girls want to get married, have babies & give up their careers  & studies. But they all have needs. Good luck!

if you dont mind some cougars and leftovers , dateinasia dot com is not to bad and had several blissful encounters when i first arrived in china, but now its holy deadlock, marriage, ball and chain forever, good luck

if your having trouble with girls perhaps find yourself a wingman