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anonymous
Q: So whats the dating scene like for non white foriegners?
I see a lot of posts from white dudes whining about all the attention they get from the ladies. Its pretty obnoxious. So id like to hear from some people of color. How are they doing with the ladies?
10 years 51 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Why posting anonymously? Scared? Trolling? Get a life.
I'm not a person of color, but can I post my observations anyay? Really? Cool, thanks!
- I've seen a tall black guy getting married to a Chinese woman in Changsha.
- I've also seen a few Chinese girls walking around with their black boyfriends in Changsha.
Now, I don't see very many black people here, but when I do, I see them with a Chinese girl half of the time.
EDIT: I'm going to expound on this, since the thread turned into an anti-Chinese, "you-must-be-a-wumao" shatfest again (I've been guilty of it too, but it's getting old). I've also seen plenty of dark-skinned foreigners with Chinese ladies as well. If you're funny and have a good personality, you'll have an easy time finding a girl anywhere in the world.
Obnoxious is when you come on to a forum and insult all non-Chinese people just because you hate being Chinese. Can you provide links to all these posts where people are whining about Chinese women paying too much attention to them? It is a safe bet that they are actually from Chinese men pretending to be westerners. That is also obnoxious.
Most western men, though not all, appreciate women, unlike Chinese men. We don't beat the living daylights out of them at every possible chance, no matter what they say or do. Beating the living daylights out of a woman is also obnoxious.
Chinese women tend to prefer black and white men more than Chinese men because of what you display in your post. Chinese men are obnoxious when it comes to women.
It is because of your own obnoxious behaviour that Chinese women flock to western men. No matter how bad you think we are, Chinese women think Chinese men are much worse.
-I've seen a few, but usually they have older, uglier, or something else wrong with the women.
-That said all black teachers I've worked with have been over 50 themselves.
rasklnik:
I was not expecting this comment, nor this post to have a long and happy life span.
This was clearly not posted by a "person of color" as you so put it.
If white dudes complain about the attention they get, it must be thousands and thousands times worse for Chinese men. I wonder how many Chinese men get ripped limb from limb by mobs of excited Chinese women. That news will never be known as it would just encourage a riot of women. I'm surprised that Chinese men aren't in hiding.
