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Q: Start relation with Chinese Girl

Hi,

I am not too old but I believe it's age of getting marry.

Working in Shanghai,China since 2.5 years as IT , and planning for longer time to stay in Abroad and settle life.

Is there Chinese girls are really serious about getting into relation with Indian guy ?

It is hard for them to accept Vegetarian life style. even it is very healthy.

Who can give some ideas or looking for the same kind of guy? 

5 years 2 weeks ago in  Relationships - Shanghai

 
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Try Madame Vicky...24/7...always open.

Do you have a car (sorry, motorcycle won't cut it with the parents)?

Do you have an apartment?

Can you pay the 100,000 RMB bride fee?

Do you like Hello Kitty? Are you willing to wear matching Hello Kitty pajamas and business suits?

Can you dispense cash a la ATM for various in-laws/friends/friends-of-friends/friends-of-friends-of friends at a second's notice?

 

Or, are you just fishing for the Q2 visa?

 

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I think, Many Chinese Girls who do not like meat.

But it is not easy to know who are they until getting in touch by knowing them.

And there are many people who can change and accept to be such person having similar life style and two of us can do some compromise and understanding.

 

can look and Add me from here : user.qzone.qq.com/2482039713

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I'm sure there are some girls who would be happy with an Indian guy, and not just for a fling. Of course, it's not a majority, but Shanghai is big so statistics are with you ^^ Saw a couple Chinese girl / Indian guy while running yesterday, and they definitely enjoyed their time very much. Just don't be hurried, don't build huge hopes at the first one you meet. Don't think in term of Chinese/no chinese girl, just take them as individuals, who just happen to be Chinese.

About being vegetarian : I feel you, I'm vegetarian too. I agree, I personally think it's a good practice personally and globally. But it's personal... My now wife is fine with me being vegetarian. There's always a dish without meat for me. However, she eat meat herself and don't wish to change that, which is fine for me too. The compromise was very easy to reach, because none of us is pushing the other on this issues. Her mom is also nice enough to cook no-meat dishes for me. Going out is a bit more challenging and I've to compromise ie. eat dishes where meat have been used, although I don't touch the meaty bits.

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Try Madame Vicky...24/7...always open.

Do you have a car (sorry, motorcycle won't cut it with the parents)?

Do you have an apartment?

Can you pay the 100,000 RMB bride fee?

Do you like Hello Kitty? Are you willing to wear matching Hello Kitty pajamas and business suits?

Can you dispense cash a la ATM for various in-laws/friends/friends-of-friends/friends-of-friends-of friends at a second's notice?

 

Or, are you just fishing for the Q2 visa?

 

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I have a vegetarian friend from India who is married to a Chinese woman. 

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They love MAN MEAT!

 

ho ho ho, etc...

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In China 2.5 yrs? Since you are starting slow, maybe try a Chinese boy friend first.

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yeah, I agree with that, vegetarian life style is not the main issue, you can eat vegetable, and she can eat meat, you don't push each other, that will be ok. Try, try to start a relationship with others, if it happens to be a Chinese girl, it will be better, but if it's not, it's ok too. 

 

Good luck to you. 

 

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Good luck!

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