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Q: Is there someone who wanna date with a chinese guy?

Hey,I am a chinese guy in chengdu now. As a matter of fact,I've been studying english for a very long time(since junior high).I am very interested in foreign culture and language(I tried to learn spanish by myself).

I come to this website today afternoon,and I browsed it for a while.To my surprise,there are many negatives posts about Chinese guys.That is really bad.I mean,there are people who cheat,tell lies,but there are still good people who are nice and funny. So dont be so biased and have some sense of statistics.

 

Really hope to find someone who wanna know more about the Chinese guys.

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Um...thanks, but no thanks. I'm sure you're a nice enough guy, but if I want an exotic relationship, I'll buy an iguana. However, best of luck to you on that one!

 

matrixjoseph:

I guess I used the wrong word. Actually I mean interracial or foreign.

thanks for the comment,anyway

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  Sure, drop me your number, we'll go out. Do you like Thai food?

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that someone is me!!

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Yet another person who doesn't get that this isn't a dating website.

Seriously, how hard is it to understand? Is it I who doesn't get it?

 

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I sorta disagree. I think his question is one parts "exotic dating" one parts "why is everyone always hating on Chinese men, I'm a nice guy".

 

matrixjoseph, I can't help you with the first part, but as for the second part, I say, "it's nice to meet you!"

 

Anyway, I hope that's what's going on here... 

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matrixjoseph:

Aha,I know it is not a dating web,but it is not banned for anyone to post something they wanna know which is allowed by the web,is that right?

 

One more thing,I guess the word'exotic' is sorta misleading.so i'd rather use words like foreign or interracial,maybe it will be better to understand.

The reason why I have to talk about the negative posts on chinese guys is that I read about it,and I think maybe someone get biased,you can arrive at the overall situation from what you know about the Chinese. According to me,there are mainly three reasons why the foreigners are in a more advantageous position than the Chinese guys:First,the Chinese guys easily ignore their behaviors and appearance,they seldom use perfumes,hold the doors for the ladies and so on; Second,compared to the foreigners,most young chinese are financially poor.I think those who teach English in china should feel lucky that there is such a huge demand for english teachers,especially the foreign teachers. They are well paid(a friend of mine who teaches English in a primary school get paid 150 yuan hourly,which is the minimun payment I guess),while the average employees only get paid 4,000 a month,and since there are many chinese workers,it is hard for them to find any partime job,and the payment is miserable even if they get a partime job. Last but not least,the culture difference,whenever in a club,I find it so easy for the foreigners to talk to each other even if they just meet for the first time. but when it comes to the chinese guys,most of them make it.some of them may speak poor english, some others have no idea what should be said. and others are relatively conservative. Ironically,more and more young chinese girls who wanna know foreigners to satisfy their vainglory. The easy girls the foreigners get doesnt mean that you are far better than the chinese guys.they are just blind.

 

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Mr_spoon:

Yeah I guess my reaction was a little over the top...

 

"The easy girls the foreigners get doesnt mean that you are far better than the chinese guys.they are just blind."

 

Amen to that. I'm tired of the people who say Chinese women are easy after getting with a few gold diggers.

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matrixjoseph:

Sorry to know about your experience,keep looking,wink

It's just my opinion,no offense.

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We'll trade you. From now on Chinese men can go out with the foreign women, but we get all the Chinese women to ourselves. Vote?

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When you say you only want to date foreigner or interracial, it sounds like you are just curious about the experience. Perhaps women don't like to be just used as an experiment.

matrixjoseph:

But what can you guarantee when you date someone? Can you make sure that you will marry her or be with her forever. It needs time to see if it matches. Of course I am not playing around to get experience,why should i do that? I am not an anthropologist or someone like that,you know.

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