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Q: Is there true/pure friendship between man and woman?

I say yes there is, at least one part in that friendship thinks it's pure……

12 years 31 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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I say no. There is ALWAYS the underlining desire.

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A purely platonic friendship/relationship between a woman and a man can be had if both sides give clear messages, not mixed ones. I have many female friends and my best friend is female as well.

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I have many women who are real long time good friends. I have one woman friend who I some times turn to because I think she is the smartest person I know, And she thinks I'm the craziest person she knows,, it works for us we get along great.

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I have such a friend.
I like to be with him, feel totally free, don't need to pretend I am a lady. I always feel like to want to hug him, but nothing more.
He always ask my opinions, big thing like change job, small thing like buy a new phone……
Wondering if this will change one day, when his gf doesn't want him to talk to me, or my bf wants me leave him……

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Having friends who understand you is very important, like wenna7 said it help be the real self with somebody that doesnt mock you or judge you. man or woman it doesnt matter.

Thank you.

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12 years 31 weeks ago

In the Internet, you can be the real you

 
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There may have been an attraction on the part of one friend, I think this can start a friendship. True friends are people that we each enjoy being around,, and hard to find.
Dogs and cats make good frends, always glad to see and be with you.
wenna , a mate should not be jealous of long time friends,, look at Poutine and Bay-Lee from Montana "Merica.

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I say NO. Nature is nature. A person can repress their urges in a number of ways but there will always be that little urge. I know I cant without having SOME thought. Depends on how ugly she is...lol Wink

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12 years 31 weeks ago

Live your life...do what you think you might like to do...challenge your fears...life is full of risks..change is about taking a risk...if you dont take risks you dont grow and thus never change!

 
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Or we should say, if u loved each other, then it didn't work and now u are friends? How about that?

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I have two best friends, a man and a woman. Couldn't imagine going through high school, college, work, etc without any one of them.

So yes, I believe in true friendship between a man and a woman.

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I think its possible, one of my best friends is a guy and he is the one person who knows me very well! So yes, it is possible!

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ex gf make the best friends because you got the sex out of the way. but friends of the opposite sex there will almost always be curiosity especially for men.

wenna you and your friend must make it clear to all potential bfs and gfs that if they can not accept the fact that your bff is of the opposite sex then they need to keep walking. make this an issue during the first phone conversation not right after the first night of sex hehe

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of course

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crimochina thank u.

Will make it clear during the first phone conversation Wink

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wenna noticed me Love

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not on a planet earth

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why not, coconut?

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platonic friends in the west may be possible but in china , jealousy seem to be a prerequisite for a marriage. my wife and xgf dont understand why i never act like im jealous and think i must not really love them , what a load of horseshit. and they ask them same question every month or two , they never give up wanting you to act like your jealous, its simple if you dont want me , there is the door, dont let it hit you in the ass on the way out. my first wife is my work that is what they should be jealous of. lol

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