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Q: Validate my opinion, or I'll insult you

This seems to be a common theme with Chinese women around a certain age. I've come across several women, both in RL and online, who fit this behavioral pattern.

Lots of personal drama... Asks for advice/help... Disagrees with advice/gets offended... INSULT ATTACK!
Also, they are always "smarter," "more successfuler," "better looking,"... Etc... Nothing is ever their fault, and they are always right.

What makes people like this?! I have NEVER come across it outside of China. Theories?

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If the shoe fits...

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It fits into their culture. 'It's better to lie, than lose face'.

 

I don't generalize, so my answer might not be proper!

 

I usually make judgments/changes on individual examples.

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In my opinion, Chinese girls never grow up until they get married.  Even after married, sometimes not.  Being forced to maintain a relationship brings maturity.

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You seem to referring to 'Our Lady of the Immaculate Passport Hunter" that every male (and female - for some reason) on this board hastens to respond to every time it creates a self-serving thread.

Just chill, go to BK in SH and hit on the largest posterior you see...chances are, you'll be caught in the gravitational pull of the Ugly Duckling.

 

And so it goes.

 

 

Spiderboenz:

Believe it or not, I wasn't even thinking of her. I have met several women in Nanjing who could qualify as clones of She Who Must Not be Named. THEY were who I was thinking about when I wrote this.

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You are so cryptic and truthful at the same time.

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