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Q: Weird thing happened to me from echinacities
I added an English guy as my wechat friend from echinacities and he kept talking about sex and making sex jokes.
I told him I found it is not comfortable to talk with a male about that as I do not know him very well.And then he called me not mature and not like adult.
And then deleted me on wechat.
I do not think it is proper to talk sex with a male who I have not know him for a long time.
What do you think?
I guess western girls feel the same,right?
I thought eChina made you pass IQ test. That would be weird!
Is 'mee-chat' connected to eChina?
icnif77:
'intelligent quotient' test is a premium psychometric exam and will measure your cognitive performance in several key areas including word analysis and spatial reasoning.
Bravelife:
I underdstand the definition of IQ.Just wondering what you were talking about for?
Yeah who was it? Public shaming will encourage good behavior. I remember that hunny guy got called out few weeks ago
He just kept talking about sex.But he did not say things very disgusting.I decide to not call him out now.
He just kept talking about sex.But he did not say things very disgusting.I decide to not call him out now.
more details, were the jokes funny? who was it? you brought it up and now you have to tell.
Bravelife:
He told me to send him naked picture, later he told it was a test.You can PM me to know who he is.
icnif77:
Don't listen to Ted!
Siam will carbonize your naked pic.
Put some tiny underwear on, and then post it. I'm 'success' oriented person
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I have a sex joke too!
"I blame my bad sex life on my dad. he just told me the man goes on top; the girl goes on bottom. For three years me and my wife slept in bunk-beds!'
thx Joan Rivers rip
this guy must be very desperate to try to talk about sex with someone who sounds like 11yo and looks like over 40...anyway, why didnt you hook up with him? He was not enough white?
Things that happen on wechat probably stay on wechat, unless you take a screenshot and post it here.
This is nothing. Twice, Chinese girls have added me on qq and proceeded to show me their various sexy body parts (one of them on webcam). Of course they also wanted me to participate. It's not just guys who have this fetish.
No offense, but if a guy adds you off of something like eChinacities randomly.. I don't think he is interested in sparkling conversation.
You have to suspect his hidden motives are to eventually bed you. This guy just totally lacked tactic and self-control.
So yes, he is a stupid douche but you are naive. Now tell us who he is so we can all laugh at him.
So Bravelife, is this a ploy to try to blackmail an IPhone off some random dude?
This stinks of honey trap to me.
mike695ca:
I have a tendency to agree with you on most topics but this is too much. This is slut shaming at its finest. Your gonna sit there and say its more likely that Vicky is blackmailing someone for financial gain rather than some dude thinking vicky is an idiot and usefull beat off tool? And being super creepy? Vicky pays for guys. Shes lonely. The only thing she would blackmail someone for is a hug. Just one more backwards view that chinese are always wrong and the laowai must be the victim. Then your gonna turn around and call chinese racist when they do it to us. Kind of hypocritical man. If someone id dumb enough to be creepy in such a public forum then good for her for talking about it. Next creepy dude might find someone else.
I think you should take your own advice that you gave to that guy who is also in Shanghai and wants to meet foreigners.
This post smacks of attention seeking.
If it happened as you say in your 'question', say who it was that PM'd you.
Similar to your other post asking to share accommodation in November.
Why do you need to ask relative strangers online and not friends if not trolling for perverts, because that is probably what you will get?
If you sit in your room online all the time, the chances of you meeting and evaluating decent guys drops exponentially.
Thankfully where i am the improved air quality here means i can spend more time with REAL people.
I cant believe no one has called him out yet. This is boring. Ok ill do it. Vicky PMed me and told me it was tomcatflyer.
He didnt sound nearly as dirty as that hunny guy though.
Btw where is he? Did the public shaming actually make him run?
ScotsAlan:
Come on Mike. This is below the belt.
Maybe a poster decided to play a game with Viki. Call it spam baiting perhaps. And you chose to out him.
I will report this post as against the terms and conditions of the site.
I am against censorship. But I am also against "potential" blackmail. Edited to add potential
xinyuren:
Yeah, that was low class. Even Vicky wouldn't out him publicly, and she is not afraid of outing. A new low, mike.
mike695ca:
Haha low class on an internet forum. Thats a first. Im constantly exceeding expectations. Anyways, as a rule, creepy dudes get no sympathy from me. Perhaps hell think twice next time before sending dong pics to teanage girls that wanna practise english. Ill gladly accept your report.
sorrel:
hold the phone.
there have been false/questionable accusations for offensive/inappropriate PM's before.
as a recipient of such on a few occasions myself, the most appropriate course of action is a 'report abuse' complaint to the Mod and NOT discussion on the forum.
Vicky did post PM's from Huny recently: she outed him good.
ScotsAlan:
That is well out of order to accuse another poster of such conduct.
Consider this. We are all anonymous. We don't know each other from Adam.
But maybe my wife, for example, knows I post on here and has a look to see what I have been saying.
Maybe I got bored one night and baited a spammer. Someone who could be anyone, but you decide it's a teenage girl. So you decide to broadcast your accusations. Teenage? What age? 13 or 19? Deliberately vague?
It's all about separation of real world and virtual world. You are getting the two mixed up at the moment.
Do you personaly know anyone who is involved here?
mike695ca:
@scotts.... Im trying here man, but i really cant even understand your meaning or example or see your point. But i do agree with one thing. We are all anonymous. Which is why me saying tomcatflyer tomcatflyer tomcatflyer isnt especially harmful to anyone. Especially if he was in fact being creepy.
xinyuren:
@mike. - following your logic, tomcatflyer wasn't doing any harm to anyone either. At least not enough for outing or Vicky would have done it. Scotts point was that your personal crusade against an anonymous online entity ( for doing something in the online anonymous world) and your reason for doing so, was really kind of silly. You only succeeded in outing yourself, so to speak. In the meantime, someone in the real world could actually get hurt (he mentioned a wife or gf) for no reason at all.
RobertZimmerman:
@sorrel first you say that she should tell the forum who it was then late your say to keep it private. Which one is it?
