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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Went on a date
yes thats right went on a date with my wife after 4 years,got a baby sitter (one of the Chinese teachers) and my wife and I went to see Thor 3 at the Imax in Long Gang.
reason we had not been out on a date for so long having a child,not trusting anyone to look after our son.it was a nice time.
Good lad, enjoy!
We have just had number 2 so no date night for a while for us.
our next date we might be going to see Jimmy Barnes in Macau on December 9th
Hello Rob, I'm Bob.
Gotta reply to your 'q' and get the waterprooooof!
I can understand how challenging it is to find time with your significant other, especially when there are kids.
I have seen many couples (at home) whose relationship becomes strained when the children arrive as both are constantly tired, or one or other (or both) focus too much on the child to the detriment of the previously more close relationship with their partner.
Some even use the presence of the child as an excuse not to spend time with their significant other as it can even more be emotionally draining to attend to them as well, especially after a day at work.
A too child-focused family often makes one or other (maybe even both members) of the couple feel neglected - and if not worked on this can be how emotional distance begins.
Likewise if the couple allows other (family members) interfere in the core relationship.
as you say RobRocks, finding that trusted person to care for your child when you want to spend time on one of the most important relationships in your life can be a challenge in China.