I dont want entertain the stereotype, but i have question about western man relation with crying and yelling,

I had several western bf in past few years. American, Canadian and Dutch. I realized something odd in all them, my Chinese friend say most of their western bf are like, it's normal but i find it weird, because its so different from Chinese man.

I find western to have more standard (again, not generelizing) as they are strict, and not jealous because i make me pretty for him. they less cheap too, and shower gift more easily.

Most of time, when I'm not pretty enough because I didnt have time to put makeup or dress as to be enough desirable for him, he yell at me a lot. It make me cry, because he say very mean things, but usually he apologize after, saying it for my own good. I can leave with that, because from my experience it have to do with western culture. all my friend have similar experience, so i guess its ok, and better than chinese bf boring.

so i work hard to be pretty. but it happens, when we go out, that my bf drink a lot. sometimes i say things he dont like, but he understand that he cant yell at me in public, because you dont do that. but when we go home, he sometime get more violent. it happens few time he hit me. i had black eye once, and i cannot go out with black eye.

i dont understand why western men hit their gf. on one side they want us pretty, but they make it difficult sometime. I liked my western bf bcuse they was manly, more manly than chinese, but after they punch me, the day after, they cry at me to apologize.

why the opposition?

and why would they make it harder to be pretty? again, i dont want to generalize, but all my experiences was like that, and i have a lot of friends who lived same experience...

Is it common with western man? i like western culture, and want to know more.

Thank you a lot