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Q: What are the 5 best chat up lines (in Chinese) to get the attention of a lady?

Not a lot of English speakers here but a lot of cuties so Nihao ke ai is fitting as is Ni hen meili.

After those lines I am at a loss for what to say especially if you get a positive response and a mouthful of Chinese albeit with a smile after your opening gambit.

Do you ask if they have a boyfriend and are they married? Probably a good idea if you want to avoid a fight.
Then.....???? Wink

12 years 31 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Can you come back after I have a few more beers?

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dont ask if they have a bf simply learn how to say "make friend" something pengyou ma?

you meiyou qq? tele is too personal then move from there

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but be warned many chinese lie about not having a bf when they actually do. i have heard many excuses but i think it is to keep you interested while they practice their english. what i do is , i make clear my intentions after week, if no progress is made i cut them off

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My friend used the following line in a bar once and it bizarrely worked:

"你的眼睛像神秘的月亮 - You're eyes are like the mysterious moon."

It's apparantly a line from a popular rock song in China.

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come on , Are there any else thiings to do in china? why almost every foreigner male interest how to flirting with a female Puzzled

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Because back home they get smacked for it.

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Dude, calling women "ladies" is the mark of a creepy dork.

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Well call me ole fashioned but they are "ladies' until such time as they are otherwise identified.

GuilinRaf:

Hear Hear!!!

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I will share with you guys one of my pick up lines,, however I'm getting it copy written for North America,,,You have to say it cool and in a low tone voice " Hi,,,,,can I.. buy you a ,,,,car ?? " I always get a laugh ,, breaks the ice.

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I am a chinese lady who lives in suzhou, i always very impressed about the guy who start conversation, i always talk back with funny tone and big smile,i love brave guy.

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Chinese women aren't worth the hassle. They will talk about marriage the first hour chatting with them. Then they wonder why foreigners run away after sleeping with them.

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Tired of dirt and lies.

 
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Hey Superlady: Ni hen meili...

Now give me a big smile and talk back with a funny tone to me.
I'm a brave guy right?
Do you love me?

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你很漂亮!你愿意嫁给我吗?You are beautiful - will you marry me? It get's a laugh!
Sounds like
Nǐ hěn piàoliang! Nǐ yuànyì jià gěi wǒ ma?
or better still in true native English/Chinese phonetics ..Nee ham Chalia... nee yun, ee cha  - a - womah?

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你 要 一个 Ipad 吗? Do you want an Ipad?

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take a roll of money and play with it in your hands.  doing the same with your passport might have the same effect  :P

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Unless your passport is from North Korea...

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haha, it seems that rumors is right, most foreigners come to China, for nice girl, but why not pay attention to its 5000 years history?  or those foreigns can't find female in their country? or have special feeling about chinese lady?  

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For myself ., didn't come to China to meet nice girl,,,,I meet nice girl where ever I am,,,silly people just think we come for women because we get them,,,,generally we/me foreigner think Thai girls hot,,,never heard of chinese girl,,,, actually with our immigration rate there are one hell of a lot of Chinese in my country.,,,,and for not finding female in our country,,, same goes goes for many many many chinese man.

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What I find funny and tragic is that the same Chinese boys who gleefully laugh and  point out that the foreigner could not get a girl "in his own country" may very well find themselves marrying foreign  girls themselves, (especially from Vietnam) since the male population exceeds the female population here in China

Wonder how funny they will find it then...

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foreigner can't find women in own country but find many many many in China, is that our fault? Who cares about 5000 years of history. North America has 15,000 years of history. The first immigrants arrived then, and today they are still coming. Look how many wish for visa.

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of course , it is not foreign friends fault, this means partially,  what we are talking about, is just a small part, and not mostly, so please don't give me some special sample for common phenomenon, by the way, as we all known, in this world, only have four four oldest ancient civilizations, and now, only China, keep it's culture wealthy, even now, most younger generation know nothing about it, but i really exist, even some people not interest or care about 5000 thousands history, but still have others interest, and enjoy it, for me, myself, respect, all the friends, here, and in reality, from different country, we are all human being, we are in the same world, we are one, what my purpose for this idea, is only for this topic, no discrimination , no else.

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haha,  you are right, it is just a small part, and now  if you are telling the trues, i can see that you are not the 'most foreigners', lol

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you are very attractive, can i buy you a drink? 

dharma86:

Come on, really?

 

An obvious (and more common practice) in China is to offer a toast either by going over to her or inviting her over to you.

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toast is not my thing, i like the man who is straight and brave.

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Salut suis à la recherche d'une rencontre sérieuse

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