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Q: What do Chinese girls SEE in white guys??

Chinese people are obsessed about physical looks, yet every time I see a mixed couple down the street (90% white guy Chinese girl) the guy is often older, not attractive AT ALL, unsophisticated and frankly sometimes just looks downright obscene.

Is it just different standards, or is the attraction to ''the different' really that strong?

8 years 14 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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It's what is inside the heart that counts! So many westerner are perverted, young west no have nothing else but think of sex. more mature means more serious and better to understand important values

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Some Chinese girls think about money, but to be honest, in Shanghai I just know to many not well paid foreigners. Maybe it's about love.

And yes, if I will ever date a white, have to be in his 30s, 40s, 20 something boys, no thanks~

And true, Chinese see white differently, if u think the old, ugly white guy has a charming Chinese girl with him, sorry that charming Chinese girl is not so charming in our eyes too~

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I strongly recommend you read "The East, The West, And Sex" (2009) by Richard Bernstein.

It's a thoroughly researched book looking into why this commonly-seen 'phenomenon' of old-white-guy-with-young-Asian-girl exists, and throws light onto the religious, social and economic changes that took place in both the West and the East, and led to this phenomenon to occur, and more pertinently why it arouses suspicion and contempt in onlookers.

After you read it you will not look at those types of couples in the same light, I promise you!
Everybody has their own story to tell.

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Chinese girls like more mature guys , regardless if they are chinese or westerners Smile

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I have heard that an old Chinese folklore says that an older man and a younger woman will have a smarter baby. Maybe that's part of it.

Also, keep in mind Chinese culture... Maybe the girl is not from the wealthiest family and she views the relationship as a way that she will be able to help her family (especially when they are older). Filial gold digging?

Another thing is that there is the idea that "mixture babies" are really beautiful - "A little me but WHITER!"

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ady guess you havnt looked in the mirrior lately ..... :reminds me of something on holloywood blvd

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i am brown ,my chinese gf loves me ..

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I doubt it’s from the heart. Why she goes out with older guy? My female friends once told me he’s very gentle with her in bed. Her sex life’s amazing. I guess older guy shows the girls really good time in bed.

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Westerner more mature, have lot ambiton and have good job, pay. But they r perverts Sad they cant be perfect...

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they see something different thats what they see. chill out.. this topic is as old as mao's grave

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Wake up Ady...the main reason for these "mismatched couples" is money. Chinese people have gotten a whiff of money and decided they can't get enough of it. Most people have money signs sparkling in their eyes and a vision of a better life. This is the first thing that attracts young Chinese women to old, ugly foreign men, but whether they actually have feelings for them is not for me to answer. There may well be love between them too.

I've gone on a couple of dates with women here (I'm young and attractive just for the record), and each time one of the first 3 questions asked was what my job was and whether I'm on a high salary. I'm not interested in girls who put money and material possession over personality as I don't think I can be happy over the longterm with somebody who has that kind of mentality...so needless to say, a 2nd date never happened.

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lol i guess pasport for the big world outside china. and also money alot mattter for them.. i guess hardly any women care about feeling or love ... but its not only in china anywhere.........given takes. no pure love..thats why these bloody old chips are with sexy erotic chinese girls.......ha ha ha no offensive. Tongue Wink Tongue Wink Tongue

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they are attracted to us because we're exotic to them, the same way a cute Chinese girl will be exotic in UK.

This is why i love China!

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80% of the Chinese girls who date foreigners are unworthy of mixing into our gene pool. They're girls like Vehru.

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