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Q: what do chinese women expect from there western couple?
this question seems some kind of modified,or edited but I would love to know how do Chinese women want their western couple to treat them in a way they can be satisfied, my friend have tried everything possible with her couple but she does not stop disturbing,insulting and and offending him and she never ask him for forgiveness whenever she is wrong, so my question is how can we satisfy Chinese women? thanks for anyone who can give us a reasonable reply without any offense. I thought love has to do with tolerance,mutual understanding and trust instead of material gain only but as I have seen here this seems not to be the case, can anyone help us out?
11 years 29 weeks ago in Relationships - China
As a Chinese woman,I'd like to get a lot of love from my western husband, no cheating, be frank with me for everything ,never hide things from me .It would be a big trouble If he hide things from me and I find out by myself or someone tells me one day.
Freedom,as I am a very independent woman, freedom is very important,Husband should support me ,so I can do things that I like,No controlling .
Respect,Very important, He has to respect me ,my family ,my friends and my ideas for things even its different from his. don't try to change my idea.But I am open to hear advice,take it or not ,its all up to me. of course,I will make a right decision.
Hardworking,He will work hard for our bright future,not being lazy.
Surprises,If he could give me a surprise sometimes,It would be a big plus lol. as I am a romantic woman.
Of course, I will do the same for my husband,It's true that you Should do well first,then You have a right to ask people to do.
All we want is,Be a happy couple.
I would guess that it is mostly a cultural difference. Many girls simply do not know how to have a relationship without "sa jiao". It is just too ingrained into their psyche.
Of course, there are also "spoiled brats" everywhere, of both genders, etc. who may try to excuse their behavior as "cultural". They may even tell you, If you are in China, you "have" to adapt because that is how things are done "here". And, if you both emigrate to another place, you STILL "have" to adapt because that is "my" culture.
Naturally, more mature (en terms of behavior, not age) couples discuss things and may tone down or even eliminate (or adopt) certain cultural habits for the sake of the relationship.
In answer to your question, I would imagine that the girl simply wants her partner to treat her with dignity and respect, not lie or cheat on her and never make her lose face and to be a good provider for the family. Have a good temper is another thing I hear a lot.
