a friggin' iPad I think

money

money

number one on their list. a house

House, money and love would simply be a bonus. Lately I've noticed a surprising trend where local women also want a man who will support HER family! So that almost certainly rules out they would marry another Chinese as being custom the man looks after his parents, for a woman to have that request the man would need to support his wife, child, his parents and her parents, that's kind of a tall order...

Yeah, definitely an iPad and a pervert boyfriend. It's all the rave these days.

i am chinese woman, 30, single, i want the man who make me smile, then not too poor, no need house, i got an nice one

Hi superlady, I can make you smile, I'm not to poor either!

What are you guys waiting for.... I will be the priest. And Tomorrow is a good day to get married...

Faithful bf/husband I guess.

Njord is obvious not one……

che, wenna7 you won't even talk to me... what are you talking about??

I asked u to come to shanghai last week, go to meet my family this week, plan the wedding on National holiday, go the Maldives for honeymoon! It‘s u the one who doesn’t talk～

the chinese man earned money to conquer the chinese woman the chinese woman conquered the man to earn money.

Damn wenna, are all Chinese women that organized? Since you seem to know everything, would you happen to know any good medicine for a grumpy tummy?

Not really, if r have read the answers I gave, all most everyone agree that I am stupid, clueless, naive or even racist. But for the wedding, it's true, since the second I read that Njord said he loves me, everything planed by the next minute……

For a grumpy tummy, I suggest to go to see a doctor

There is a modern saying here, "if you want to catch a Phoenix, you must have a nest", so it seems after watching the every growing bubble of the housing market, so big, that it makes the US bubble look like a joke, I would have to say the pressure is on men to have a house.

I asked you to send me a private message, you never did...

They want a man who tells them what to do, has loads of ambitions, makes a ton of money while giving in to her caprices (or sa jiao as I read here) and buying her tons of stuff, while she spends her time shopping.

i think it is stupid to ask what chinese women want. there are over 700,000,000 women here. a good percentage are turned off by chinese men. so you could find whatever you are looking for. If you want sex there are many who love sex with foreign men (I wonder why hehe) just a short time fling some are into having a foreign bf before they marry who their parents tell them to. the number one problem though is dealing with the women who are just wasting your time to practice their english.

That´s it, that´s it!! They want to practice English! While you buy the car, the apartment, jewelry, support her and her family, the dog, the cat...
heheheh Just joking... not! (mostly)

The Chinese women are shy, like most Asian women. They like their MAN to find out what they like. I reckon a bit of attention, a romantic dinner, snuggling up at home in front of the TV watching an English movie with Chinese sub-titles! The occasional English lesson, depending on the topic, wouldn't go astray either. Oh, keep her away from the big name department stores if she likes to shop....restriction to roadside markets is not only money wise it can be romantic - call it a picnic! Hmmmm?

Oh, by the way, wenna7 and Njord, please invite me to the wedding. I will bring the red envelope ok? It will help to pay for that beach house in the Maldives!

DaqingDevil, u seem know Asian women. It's true, not so many women ask what they want, but there r some do, like we have a girl asked for an Ipad and got all the critics from a lot people.

crimochina good point!!! U can get the kind u want. If u can only pay then find someone u can buy.

Njord, I sent u PM, u didn't reply, though the context has nothing to do with the wedding……