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Q: What do you think if a Chinese prefers western girlfriend to natives?

Just a discussion, i wonder it is really acceptable for you?  How do you think of them?

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Lots of Chinese guys have a jones for western ladies.

The reality for 99.999% of them is that they will be shit outta luck scratching that itch for a number of reasons that I won't go into here.

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western girls are too independent for most chinese men to handle, messes with what little self esteem they have.

 

 

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What do you think?

 

Everyone has their personal choices/preferences when it comes to the opposite sex. For me I like women who have their own opinions, independence & live their lives as they want, not what their cultures or families dictate. 

 

Now of of course I live in China where the ratio of Chinese women to non-Chinese women is greater than 99:1.  So my wife is Chinese. Did I date her just because she was Chinese? No, but it's far easier to meet Chinese, compared to non-chinese women in China. 

 

Does your question have an ulterior motive? Don't know and don't care!

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Lots of Chinese guys have a jones for western ladies.

The reality for 99.999% of them is that they will be shit outta luck scratching that itch for a number of reasons that I won't go into here.

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What do you think if a Chinese prefers western girlfriend to natives?

Just a discussion, i wonder it is really acceptable for you?  How do you think of them"

 

Typical backwards Chinese thinking. What someone does in their own personal life completely not involving me should be judged as acceptable or not. 

This sort of applies to the whole racist ad thing to. Get your wang working , open your minds and have sex for the pleasure it and stop being uptight losers. 

If you think I'm going off the rails, ask yourself this question (actually 2). Why would someone even think to ask if someone else's choice of a girlfriend is acceptable to you? Where does the hatred for black people come from (they hate westerners and Japanese for irrational historical reasons but what is the hatred of blacks based on)? I truly believe a huge source of these 2 issues come from the Chinese man's inferiority complex about their lack of manhood. Learn from Japan, China.

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Acceptable ? That's a strange word to use..
It's not my business what other guys prefer and I really don't care.

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I couldn't care less.

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This for any Chinese dishonoring 10,000 years Glorious China Culture!

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10,000 years , is that all. When you get to over 40,000 then we'll talk .

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1. Why would someone else's preferences matter to me?

2. What would it matter if I find it acceptable or unacceptable?

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Like most men, it only matters if someone else has his heart set on having her...

Then "race" or nationality or finances or..etc...some form of collaboration, becomes the weaker of the competitor's strategy...As you can see in today's culture wars...Then that strategy is a method that the female expects the "winner" of her affections to continue to employ as her protection..So be careful with what you win a woman's heart with...if you ever do...

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I can only sum it up with a line: Money talks and being bored shall walk for 3 minutes. Otherwise no chance. Sex is a big deal to Western women & men, thus it should be. And I'm sorry if you don't start sex early in life , than like the women tell us out here: My husband can only last 3 minutes. So I think western women will have high standers when it comes to sex. And they should... It took me 2 years to turn my wife into a western woman. That keeps me home at night, get the hint?!

CortaWindsfairy:

well,sex technique?good point,maybe porn art will help a bit.....

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well, I didn't express well enough......I am a nerd(sorry, no experience)....

a stupid question........ Just a naive thought........To be honest,I care nothing of nationality,may I delete this question?

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You've got more balls than some of the regulars. You owned up to it. Don't worry when we [myself included] make a bonehead post, we get ridiculed. Don't take it to heart and welcome.

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Yep, what Ted said was bang on and well said. Don't worry about it.

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A lot of Chinese women want to escape the traditional culture of their ancestors and falsely believe that the opportunity to live in a country like the U.S.A. which values freedom is in response to an inner yearning of all young and old people.
 

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