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Q: What kind of Western women do Chinese want?

It's well documented that Chinese girls mainly want Western guy who is nice and haz currency. I'm simplifying for teh sake of the question. But the other way around, what do?

I have a female friend from somewhere in Europe that told me that according to her xp (she got quite the lvl up!), Chinese men are discrete, to like to stand out is a no-no. So they will be uncomfortable with a girl that wear tight tshirts and short skirts. People would stand at her too much and a Chinese boyfriend would be uneasy to be the center of attention.

Therefore, she told me that Chinese men would prefer "boring girl next-door", with no particular outstanding feature, rather than a "beautiful extroverted" type.

I can't halp but ponder about it.

8 years 21 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Western women are weaned on the milk of equality, free speech, and self-expression. This is hard for many Asian men to comprehend. Subsequently, they are not used to women who are so vocal in their opinion, especially concerning taboo subjects like sex, faith and money matters.
So some Western women can come across as quite intimidating to Asian men who are perhaps more familiar with the more subdued nature of Asian women.
Of course, this is generalizing (there are many feisty Shanghai-born and Beijing-born Chinese women who are not afraid to speak their minds!), but as a whole country it rings true.

I'm not sure that Chinese guys are uncomfortable with girls who wear "tight t-shirts and short skirts"... have you seen some of the shorts they wear here?! More like a belt! But there's a certain presumption that Western women are more 'open' in their thoughts, sexuality etc which can be seen as an initial attraction for lust, but perhaps not a relationship.

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more like chinese women in behaviour, style and attire but western women have got their standards... i guess thats not possible for some chinese guys to have western women impressed easily.

its luck- whatever a person get it matter of time and space..... where , when , who and how meets..

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