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Q: What is Love in Chinese conception?

Seriously i don't know why chinese and especially girls run a long run with love..........but eventually they stop running and then just try to find a new field to run on.........Is love that simple to them?........or they lose the feel by time.....not a personal experience but a friend loved a chinese girl and they are together for 2 years and one day they just broke uyp over a phone call..........She always said she loves him but now she called him and said she is tired of this love.....WTF?!!!!

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In Chinese (conception?),
love is perrrfection,
the inception of something that brings on erection,
OF PURRRPOSE.
(Excuse me for sexual suggestion,
I did it on purrrpose).
But back to the question:
Hmm, so, just what 'is' love in ANYONE'S conception?

 
For some it is fun so they take many lovers, 
girls seek out their fathers, 
boys look for their mothers.
P-prostitutes play party games for the greedy,
turn tricks for the seedy,
die lonely and needy. 
Some marry for money and so become housewives, 
who oggle soap operas 
and yearn for their old lives,
whilst others stay hopeful that true love is waiting;
they seek it on websites
(when not masturbating).
And the sight of the web in which love is the spider,
gets bigger and scarier,
wider and wider,
until at the time when they most least expect it,
it pounces and eats them...GULP!

Createach:

your answer makes me feel bad for love and loving someone.That's why i give you a thumbs up.....Rock on!!!!!!!

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i asked similar question few months back.........

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Createach. It is distinctly unfair and unreasonable to take the example of one girl who acted badly, when asking such a broad question.

 

I'm sure some people of all nationalities would act the same way as your friend's ex did (male and female). It's not fair to the half a billion or so women in the world who happen to be Chinese, to use that one example and try and explain them.

 

I remember feeling irritated a few months ago by a thread about 'western women' when the OP took an example of one woman who'd been a bitch, then tried to draw it out to ask a general question (strongly implying all us western women were complexed bitches). You're doing the same thing here; using one bad experience to tar a whole group. I don't think this is reasonable. (Should point out, this answer has undergone a little editing Smile )  

stan118:

one of the best comments on this site, this site seems to be full of silly questions and rude answers

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Victoria1987:

Agree with you,MissA.

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Relationships end, whoopie, get over it, they don't work, they get tired, they never were really in love, she got sick of a boring ass, what ever. Haven't you ever gone out with someone you found attractive only to find you can't stand the woman, so you asked her out and will pay for dinner, but can't wait to get home alone. What happens if that date is 2 years later, same thing, it's over. It's better to let Chinese women down easily, they have tempers like fire, see penis removal China.

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There are many Chinese girls marry for money,but i think though the number are large,they are still a minority compared to the whole group.I think love in Chinese culture is the same as it is in the other countries over the world.It is care,tolerance,bravery,trust,loyalty,consideration,sacrifice,devotion,responsibility,happiness,sadness,

heartbreak.It's  a mood,like the clouds in the blue sky.It's spring lying in the snow in winter.It's a quiet bay where you can anchor at ease.It's a nice book which teaches you to be mature and strong.

i don't know why your friend's ex left him,but maybe there are some other reasons your friend didn't tell you.Chinese girls usually pay much attention to loyalty once they really fall in love and they don't want to see much uncertainty in their relationship in the future.Also ,they hope the ones they want to marry would have a good temper and be filial.As you can see,there are much points involved,so we really can't say anything now that we don't know what the problem lies in.

Createach:

i'll ask my friend and get back to you on that.i also think there might be other reasons

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You are wise about that.

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better is to check first if there was not similar question asked...

http://answers.echinacities.com/node/60804

just use "search" before "ask"

Createach:

my bad.......apologises my cyber friend

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