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Q: What matters most when you date a Chinese girl?

1. Age
2. Education
3. Employment
4. Hobbies
5. Marital status (separated, divorced, single, married)
6. Sexual orientation (hetero/bi/homosexual)
7. Smoke/Drink (yes or no)
8. Family (does he/she want children)
9. Foreign language skills (can he/she speak any languages other than Chinese)
10. World outlook (is he/she open minded, willing to travel abroad, interested in foreign culture etc.)
11. Residence (where is the person living: which city; what type of accomodation arrangement ie. own flat, flat share, living with parents)
12. Others

12 years 36 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Just to make clear, date means there's an interests for a serious relationship...

Age (at least 1 year younger than me)
Marital status (preferently single)
Sexual orientation (I prefer straight, I dont like bi)
World outlook (In case we reach that further we may get married and eventually move to another country)

If just for fun and friends then none of them, as far as we both have the will to spend time and have fun is enough!

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I am not that fussy about small things at all, age is only a reference point, as long as the is some common ground besides great sex I would date them all.

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Come on thumbs down everything I say. rnrnPlease I like it thumbs down some more.

 
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an person I find attractive,, that I form an attachment to and that we get along,, not have too many personal problems like being a drunk,,,,have mutual agreements on what we like and do,,,,, but i have to be funnier one,,,, and I like to be on the bottom Shy Shy

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Will she put out?
Is she clean?
How many foreigners before me has she gone through?
Does she have kids?
Does she want to move abroad?
Is she working?
Does she go to the KTV or disco often?
Does she carry condoms in her purse?
How many mobiles does she have?
How often does she text or talk on her phone?
How late is she getting calls from men and how often and how many?
Is she a manic liar? Can she tell the truth? (I've yet to meet a local woman who does not lie about... Everything.)
Does she say she's a "traditional Chinese girl" (then you know she's an idiot)
Does she want gifts?
Does she enjoy helping you spend your money (on her)- remember a whore is cheaper...
Is she concerned with your money, your families money? Does she suddenly have a family emergency that requires money for her or her family?
I can go on but this is the short list. Laughing out loud

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1: Financial independence
2: Reasons she dates foreigners (My fiancee dated a coupe before me because she thinks Chinese men don't treat women well. I'm not saying I agree or disagree, but that's her feeling)
3: Future plans
4:Honesty
5: Humour and ability to have fun
6: Awareness about the world outside of China
7: Does she buy into propaganda
8: Does she want to move to my country
9: Is she FUN in bed?
10: How is she with her own money?

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Why do you want to know so much about me and my favorite seasonings, skater? I find it suspicious to say the least...

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Njord,,, maybe i should have you interview my dates for me,, i don't screen enoff. Bot I still like the bottom, Shy Shy i like small butts

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Interesting, i see some answers from people who dislike Chinese who do date Chinese. only 2 things matters to me
1, Must have small boobs. (i don't want them to hang on her knees when she is 50.. like Western girls with big ones.
2. Shaved armpits.
I don't go and look for girls in the trashcan, so i a never found a dirty one. You normally draw the same as you are, if you clean you will find clean.

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What about you, skater? How do you like them? I'm interested to know...

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I like small boobs, shave arm pits and sunny side up too Fritz,,but using yor philosophy of clean finds clean, how come I can't find rich? Sad Sad

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@Tommas

My laopo will kill me if I ever come up the thought of dating a Chinese girl.

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Haha, so u laopo is not Chinese.

But why do u ask such question if it has nothing to do with u?

And by seeing the list only Fritz might want to date me……

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She has to be open minded and willing to accept and even embrace other cultures, just as I would embrace Chinese culture if I dated a Chinese girl. Girls flirt with me every day, but I'm not into girls that are into hello kitty and fluffy toys. I'm saving myself for when a strong, intelligent and creative woman with good taste blows me away. Somehow, I have the feeling that's not going to a a Chinese lady.

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yeah sophie... im confused... you state wont put out, but carry condoms just in case... just in case you have a Vegas style marriage to the guy you met two hours ago?

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1. Adventurous and curious
2. Have a sense of humor
3. Like to travel.
4. speak at least a little english.
5. smell good.

Need not be so skilled in bed. I can teach that. Wink but she should at least know how to kiss

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Money, money and more money Shock Shock

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Breathing.....cheeky

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damn,,, you are demanding !  

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Skills. Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills.

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its key that theirs intentions are the same as yours... other than that, good looking and comfortable to be with. but playing the stupid ditz card is a huge turnoff

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                         Chinese and Korean women/girls/airheads that act stupid or ditzy are MAJOR turnoffs and just plain ANNOYING no matter whether I'm interested in them or not. * Unfortunately, in NE Asia there are plenty like this..stupid,highly immature and extremely childish!!! :( GO AWAY!!!

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Money.

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is this the oldest post still open on Echina ?

most of mine have been locked  and I have no idea whysmiley

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Most of all, Money!

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How much money you're ready to spend on her.

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it is most important that you have high-quality nao er qi 挠耳器 on your key ring, so she can dig in your ears as you ride the metro.

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Money!!!!!!!

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