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Q: What is the most disgusting thing you have ever heard someone say?
I was having coffee with a former colleague (Chinese English teacher) and he was telling me about his new teaching position, teaching kids. I commented on how I hate teaching children. And his response was it is ok because you could have sex with them. I blurted out what the fuck is wrong with you!?!. (he teaches middle school students)
He then doubled down on this retarded statement saying that they are virgins and blah blah virgins blah blah blah virgin be the hero of women. And then he said all Chinese men are like this. I had to get up and leave before I ended up punching him in his face.
God I wish I would have punched him.
The problem with having him fired quietly is that he could then go & get a teaching job in another city and still be a risk to children. I'd do what was suggested and then get the school to out him. If they won't do anything then involve the police. Especially as he is now on ex-colleague.
... I am glad that I have took one virgin out of their dirty hands.
No, btw, I think I can not beat your experience. I have heard similiar words, but not from teacher .
Well how bout you get proactive and convey this conversation to the leaders of his new school. And share it with everyone else who knows him too. Start with the degenerate's wife.
The school could send a text to every parent.... oh, gees. I dunno. Heaven help these poor kids. The women.
I hope the perverts can be outed somehow.
But then, does society here care about anything other than money and position. And face.
God help us all.
Dude! Just... wow. I've heard the stereotype before, the "All Westerners teaching in China are just pervs with a case of yellow fever" (thankfully, not all that often, and only maybe once in person at most), but I never heard someone blatantly suggest teaching for the purpose of having sex with students (or listing that as a benefit)... let alone children.
Sounds like the guy was just a pedo, and did the common "All Chinese are like that", a variant of "It's the Chinese way", so as to not take personal responsibility, but blame it on China/Chinese culture.
If you know where he teaches, I'd suggest reporting him, and if the authorities at the school are useless (and school authorities usually are), then go to the parents.
Wow, I got an idea.
You should go out with the guy again and record him saying it on video if possible. Or entrap him somehow and then give the video to the school leaders quietly. You don't want to blow things up but let the leaders know how much face he can make the school lose...
Then quietly suggest having him fired for incompetent teaching or something. If he is fired for being a pedophile the school will lose face for having even hired him in the first place. If the school doesn't go with it, then consider finding another job and then releasing the video to the parents of the school .
This method (mass exposure) will probably be blow up and could get crazy fast. The school may even try to turn the tables on you... but they won't if you take it to them quietly first.
To answer your question, I heard foreigners talking about banging their middle school students and being their sex teachers out loud in English with other Chinese around... some understanding and some not.
It was embarrassing... some of the foreigners that come here are complete and utter trash too.
The problem with having him fired quietly is that he could then go & get a teaching job in another city and still be a risk to children. I'd do what was suggested and then get the school to out him. If they won't do anything then involve the police. Especially as he is now on ex-colleague.
Wow!
I'm surprised no-one has suggested the most effective solution... have him beaten senseless and then castrated... that should guarantee he'll never do it again!
Shining_brow:
Well, the girls are in middle-school, so middle-ages justice seems appropriate!
I vote for the secret audio or video tape. It's the only way to get the proof, and that's the only way to get him busted (with proof)
I'm amazed he talked about this crap openly. Chinese usually don't advertise their reprehensible deeds. Unfortunately, I do believe it's a frequent occurrence. Getting him fired will be like asking catholic priests to renounce a known paedophile colleague. They're not all paedos themselves, but they are aware that some are, and they'll willingly cover up the embarassment. Saving face is too important here, and that piece of human filth may even receive sympathy and understanding for his apparent weakness. My advice? DO punch him. Is he going to call attention to your action, raising the question of WHY you did it? Do your worst! He certainly does.
I am just curious, by saying 'middle school,' what grade do you mean? I ask because Chinese often say middle school when speaking about high school. I remember when I was a high school student many girls had boyfriends that were either in university or in a 20-30 age range.
I think Chinese don't really care too much about older men preying upon young girls. Go to Gongbei border checkpoint in Zhuhai: Look out for how many old men are going into Macau with teen girls on a Friday night. It's insane.
Englteachted:
Real middle school. But a child is a child regardless of what is common. A fourteen or sixteen year old is not capable of making the choice to "date" a 20-30 year old man.
Vallyntin:
Nevertheless 14 to 16 year old girls do this in many parts of the world. In less modern times girls of that age would be married and expected to raise families. You shouldn't turn this topic or my question into a forum for you to set a rule by which all young females must conform. That is no better than the man discussed in this thread.
Visco8:
aside from the talk about this degenerate, what in fact is the 'age of consent' in China? Anyone know? In Aust. I'm pretty sure its 16yrs old.
Is he a teacher? Really....
I would've made him disappear... no joke. I would've taken him for a walk one night, and dropped him off at the pool. You know, the raging river? With cement blocks attached to his neck? Yeah. And nobody would ever find him.
Yeh, you should have hit him. But to answer your question, the worst thing i've ever heard anyone say is too hard to tell, I simply cannot remember. I did ask my wife if her mother would let me kiss her gooch (the soft flap of skin between the crotch and anus) the day before yesterday, and from her reaction i'd say it was one of the worst things SHE'S ever heard. Still couldn't give me a straight answer though. Pff.
