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Q: what is the real standard or choices of chinese girls to choose a boyfriend ? what exactly they look for in a boy?

8 years 21 weeks ago in  Relationships - Qingdao

 
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almost every girls dream to go abroad and have a foreign boyfriend ..
its ok if you are not good-looking as long as you have the cash .;.

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I have been to 6 countries in 3 continents.Never had a foreign bf.

I would say, everyone is different. I heard a lot people say that I am nothing like the Chinese girls they met, I'm not sure about that. I think there are a lot Chinese girls just like me.

I don't know why a girl has good education, career, nice family, great friends look for a foreign bf who is ugly, old but with cash and can provide her a green card.

I have this girl friend, who dates an African for 7 years, this African is from Congo, has not much money and obviously my girl friend is not dating him for a Congo green card.
I have another girl friend who dates an Indonisian, her salary tripled her bf's.

What I am saying here is every girl looks for different things, so you cannot ask what do Chinese girls look for in a bf. But if you fall in love with her, and she is looking for money and u r rich, she is looking for a visa and u can provide her, then u r lucky, cause she will be urs. If she looks for love, and she doesn't love u, I can only feel sorry for u, cause in that case, no matter how rich u r, and even u have a green card for heaven, she is not going to be with u.

Don't ask what Chinese girls want from their bf, ask the one u fall in love with, what is she looking for in u.
I have no idea, why in this website so many guys ask similar questions about Chinese girls, and it seems most people hate Chinese girl for being realistic. If u love Chinese girls, go and find a nice one. And I will not say I love foreigners, I love the one I love no matter how he looks, yellow, white or black who cares.
If you have a standard for a bf or gf, u r luck,y cause u will find one who matches all the points on ur list. The most difficult one is u want only love nothing else.

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miss weena 7 ! my question was very simple and easy to answer. i asked about the qualities and what exactly they want to find in the boy. i have not mentioned foreigners , i have not mentioned chinese.... your answer is totally pointing and picking foreigners in every aspect, all about status quo money , color and creed....
there is something in a chinese girl's mind when she select a native boy even if she has many foreigner friends or chinese friends and also vice versa...

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As Weena 7 said, people look for different things. But i'd say in general, girls want a guy who's good to them, who can take care of her and her family, who won't spend all the savings getting drunk and chasing after other women....and preferably someone who can give them a sense of security and a stable, comfortable life...

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Sorry I didn't answer ur question there. I did not mean to bring this topice to Chinese and Foreigner, I answered this question based on Sunilsah2050's answer.

And I totally agree with coffaholic's answer.

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so miss wenna 7 kindly answer according to the question asked. please do not make comments on the answer...i wish you could express your point of view instead of agree with others stated coments or answer

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I am sorry, I guess here u will say I am just a girl without her own opinion as she simply agree with other's answer.

I said I totally agree with coffaholic's answer that means I think everyone wants different things, you cannot really ask what are chinese girls look for in a boy, just ask the one u love, what she looks for in u.
And in general, most girls want a guy who's good to them, who can take care of her and her family, who won't spend all the savings getting drunk and chasing after other women....and preferably someone who can give them a sense of security and a stable, comfortable life...
What do u think about my answer? Too blunt? Too premature?Or nothing new?

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nothing new miss wenna....... i have asked this question on face from alot of girls. girls boyfriends foreigners or chinese but they haven't expressed a satisfactory answer to me. anyway it was pretty cool

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Do u know why? Because they are not the one u love.
U don't need to know what evey chinese girl's idea is, just ask the one u love.

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now a days there's one thing that chinese women want from guys ,not car,not house ..
they want 安全感。。

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