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Q: What tricks do Chinese men use to win over foreign girls?

Don't know what it's like in the rest of the country, but here in Beijing Western girls and Chinese guys are hooking up with startling frequency. I'm totally out of the whole dating game, so was wondering out of curiosity what tricks/pick up lines Chinese guys use to win over the ladies these days? Have their flirting skills improved drastically or are foreign girls just more willing to hook up with Chinese men now?

8 years 1 week ago in  Relationships - China

 
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as a chinese man, i am curious too, if anyone know these tricks, please teach me, thank you in advance.devil

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i think foreign girls must lower their standards or have a thing for chinese guys

ice: break out of the mold, be up for anything. go out with her without her/your friends and be confident. 
and learn to hide a big sausage in your pants Wink the classics are the best

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First a lot of foreign men only date locals leaving ex-pat girls lonely and bored
Second, the major cities attract not only english speaking Chinese women, but also Adventure seeking Chinese men. Think about it, a boy whose parents have raised a little prince, and already bought huim a house in a 4th rate city has no desire to try his luck in the PEK or Shanghai.
Lastly there are a lot more foreign men in asia than foreign women, so.....surprise...in a country of a billion people there are enough locals with the 'game' to pick up foreign chicks! I had 2 foreign girls and I suck at life!

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8 years 6 days ago
 
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Chinese men, Like the Saudi's throw tons of money to the skeezer 'Trophy wife" for aquistion purposes.

Hey it cant be about the teeny  bulge in the front of the pants. Its all about the bulge in the back of the pants (wallet).

Before you haters chime in, Ive seen it more than once! Smile

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8 years 6 days ago
 
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Chinese man with XXXXL jam = Guiness book of strange and rare oddities.

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8 years 5 days ago
 
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Geez, this is getting depressing. Are you really telling me that the only way a Chinese guy can get a foreign girl is if he has a ton of money or a crotch the size of Mount Everest? I don't know if they have any pick up lines, but some Chinese guys are super cute. Maybe I'm strange for only wanting cute love? I don't give a crap about crotch size, and money only so much in that by pooling our resources together we can live comfortably. Real love can exist, guys. Maybe it's more difficult to find it, but it's possible. Enough with the doom and gloom already.

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First of all this is a stupid question and second of all the comments here are really rude and raciest. The stuff about the penis size is stupid and wrong. All of you foreign men out there (and yes i am a foreign female) saying stuff about oh chinese half a small penis is shit, all you are trying to do is make yourself feel better because the foreign girl wont go with you. And then saying the foreign girl is ugly that is why she can only get a chinese guy, makes me laugh. Because foreign girls say the same thing about foreign men, how you guys are too ugly to get girls back home so you just come here to get laid because that is the only way you can.

As a foreign girl who has been living in China for over 3 years, i can honestly say that i am turned off by foreign men. Because you guys think you are so great because you can get so many girls and you just play around and dont care. Then you guys will sit down and talk about how many girls(chinese) you had (yes this is true because i have foreign male friends and i heard these conversations before). Really, what real woman would want a man like that!

I met my Chinese husband through friends and we hit it off right away. We have been together for almost 2 years now and he is the best. He didnt use any tricks or anything , he is just a honest and very confident man. He loves me very much and really makes me happy. He is not weak at all because he is not afraid to argue with me. My Chinese husband takes care of me much better than any white man ever did! So dont say that i can do better, because i already did!   So foreign men in china please please get over yourselves because you guys are really not that great! And if you have chinese girls interested in you, it is only because they think you have money.

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In my four years in Guilin, I only saw one couple whre the girl was western and the boy was Chinese. The vast majority of the time it was the other way around.
Here in Beijing I have seen a few more, but still the minority.

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Haha.  I smell a superiority complex in this threadwink

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My laogong was sweet, genuine and could keep me having interesting conversation for hours, I hit a rough patch right after we met and he ran round doing everything he could to help me, even if it meant he was running round all day after doing a 12 hour night shift. He's far from loaded and neither mt everest nor cocktail sausage ( I hate the whole stereotyping) what is it about foreign countries that turn british/american people into colonial asses! nice guys exsist in every race and shock-horror some people do just want love.

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