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Q: what will the boy think of her when she said she is excited ?
i have a female friend,she(chinese) is dating with a foreigner (european)---she said it is a formal dating. the boy kissed her lips after 2 months they knew each other, both of them are serious with the relationship and want to develop step by step.
she said when he kissed her lips,she felt nervus and excited. then the boy asked her: what happened ? she said :i am a little excited...she felt shy...
after kissing her, he said he wanted to start a relationship with her...
so,she asked me : in this situation, is it good to tell the boy that she is excited ? what will the boy think of her ? (they havent become the real bf & gf --i mean they havent met each others' friends or families , just dating and see what happens)
12 years 11 weeks ago in Relationships - China
I am not Dr. Love, and normally stay away from getting involved with this type of questions, but in a way must also say this.
I do not think it is wrong for her to say that she was excited by the kiss. After all, there are feelings present, at least that we know of on her side. It is normal to be excited when kissed by someone you are attracted to, in fact, it I were the man I would not need for her to tell me because I will know it without her opening her mouth. And yes, I would be excited too.
Now, another thing will be how the MAN would handle it, and that will dependa lot on his mental age (maturity). A mature man will know it, and will not take advantage of the moment to press further. That will show a genuine interest in building a long relationship based on love and mutual respect. And that way of thinking comes with maturity.
Now, if the fellow just has a physical attraction, wants the girl just as another member of the "4 F- Club, he will try hard to move the relationship further into intimacy if he senses a degree of excitement in the girl.
I have always been a believer that actions speak louder than words. Unfortunately, many pay more attention to words than to actions.
All part of the future, rather be told by a girl she's excited than stand like a statue. Seems like a good way to indicate an advancement in a relationship.
