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Q: what would you prefer a chinese wife or a foreigner wife after you lived both of countries ?
do you think its better to have a chinese wife with best figure of you would choose to have a foreign wife from your own country ? dont you want to have mix childerns?
I married my wife because I love her not because she is Chinese
She is my best friend and the mother of our children
I couldn't care less if she was a Eskimo or European
maybe some guys get what they call yellow fever however in the mixed couples I know
It is not the case.
may I ask where you are from?
philbravery:
Just interested in other cultures point of view not just Chinese and Western
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jus chill, by asking this question i didnt mean to say that what you thought i just wanted to know your ideas nothing else so feel easy and chill
I just want to marry someone who will complement me as I complement her. A friend and a life-team-mate. I don't care where she is from, what her race is or what God or religion she follows (if any). Only that on those things we disagree that she give me the same respect as I give her. To want someone just because she is Chinese or Western or White, or any other race, country, creed, etc. is shallow.
I see a miserable life of being a single, sexless douche in your future. I married my wife cause I met her at a time where I was ready to get married and we loved each other. I could have been anywhere for that.
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you think and you guess too much you dont have to do that it will stress your mind ,haha because i was married when i was 19 and its been 5 years i am married and am having a good life with my wife just think bout you and your life hope you will understand
There are many considerations to be taken into account in selecting a proper mate instead of nationality and / or figure as you suggest. To me, those two are too far down my list to even think of them.
Good communication skills must exist between both, so mutual trust could be build between us. The ability to negotiate likes and dislikes of both, and be able to reach a happy medium mutually satisfactory for both. Mutual respect for each's customs and traditions, and the ability to kiss and make up when angry moments or disagreements surface, and they will. Having a kind heart, tolerance with each other, and above all, mutual respect.
And as you may gather, I have not mentioned "figure" yet. God made so many flowers, all of different shapes and sizes, colors and aroma. That was done because each of us, as an individual, will have different tastes. Some may like them tall, some may like short, or slender, or "full figure", flat chested or big breasts, long hair or short, etc.
Yet, to me inner beauty is more important than other beauty, and does last forever. Outer beauty is received from Mother Nature when you are born, but Father time does take a bit away with each passing day. So, what was beautiful and sexy one day, years later becomes old, sagging, full of wrinkles and bold. But a kind heart will love you forever.
It took me years and tears to find my current GF. She is all I have ever dreamed of. She is the one I will share every day of my life with. And I cpould not care less if the was Chinese or not, I love her for what she is, not for what she looks like.
This post is over 2 years old, bet the poster is still single and spanking is monkey.
Nationality, colour, race, or religion should not come into it. We should choose someone for who they are, what they are, we prepare to except the shortcomings, share the highs and lows. What they have or do not have is not important, their past things are history. We choose someone and they hopefully choose us simply because we see something in them, and they us that we do not see in others.
I am sure Vicky would have had an answer to this question.
