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Q: What's up with so many kissing pictures?

I always wondered, what's up with girls kissing each other on lips and posting pictures online? is it like the best friends thing? does it get awkward only if the tongue gets involved?

 

It was disgusting enough to see parents kissing kids on the mouth (if you think otherwise, I don't care... I feel it is disgusting to kiss small kids (in few cases I've seen kids as old as 8-11 years) on the mouth) these people should be smacked on the back of the head for it...

 

this question triggered because a female friend posted a picture of pouting with a bride-to-be (she was getting married to a man, following pictures and sights made it clear) in bed.. why? just... why?

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The only kissing I see around here is alot of kissing the boss's ass.

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ha ha 1000000% right... 

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Its a free world !

why do you care ?

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Kissing your child is not sexual idiot. You just have a weird perverted mind that believes any sign of affection is somehow sexual. Have you ever hugged your grandma? Is that weird?

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Kissing someone on the lips is sexual, you idiot. 

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@Chew: The place where I come from kissing on lips is only for intimacy between grown-ups. For kids, we always kiss their cheeks or forehead. I was a bit surprised when I saw this in China and I read, quite a Americans do it as well, so maybe Chinese picked it up from there. its okay to kiss on the lips as long as the kids were little. It seemed like just another way of showing them parental love. My parents never kissed on the lips, but that does not change the bond of love that we share… I am not a pervert but doing it in public or posting pictures of it is uncomfortable. And like Noel05 said it’s a free world, expressing my opinion does not make me an idiot…    Motherkisser (pun intended)

 

and it wasn't me who gave you thumb down!! 

Chewbacca:

If you ask a question then expect an answer.

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your answer is out of line !

you are calling someone "idiot" or "weird perverted mind" !

i don't think it is an appropriate way to answer a question !

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@j89 I don't think it is appropriate to imply that parents who kiss their children are perverts.

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@Chew, I think my Inglish is not that comprehensible... I didn't mean to imply anybody a pervert. Maybe wrong choice of words in the question above. Are you Chinese? 

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People have different opinions on this and kissing your children on lips is definitely sign of affection but personally I prefer to kiss a child on the cheeks or the forehead; and about adults, I really have no clue!! Perhaps, it shows that they are very close friends!!Or it is a sign that they had a history together!

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i kissed a girl and i liked it ...... blame katty perry ......

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You gay bro? I haven't seen any girls kissing girls sadly. I really don't think you should be complaining about seeing that. I would be annoyed if I kept seeing guys kissing guys though. As for the parents kissing their kids, you don't have kids right? Sometimes the parents just love their kids so much they want to kiss them constantly. I guess they want to be kisses by their child at the same time so they kiss them on the lips.

Karma101:

Elton John Rockssss, wooohuuu…. NO, I am not gay. Okay, Joking!

 

Dude, I have this super hot yoga teacher cum salsa dance student girl in my we chat, occasionally she posts pictures kissing another super hot, some girl… but she is not gay, as I can tell she also posts pictures with some guy she calls her bf. The question is since lip kissing is usually an intimate thing for the grownups, and these girls aren’t gay, as the last example, the bride married a man… am I missing something here?

 

I am not married yet, but in a relationship (with a wonderful girl). I think parents relationship I explained in the answer above… thanks for the answer though. Cheers!  

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So you are getting off to her wechat photos? Loser

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@englteach, who you talking to?

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This is a brave new world.

What was considered "normal" is now passe'.

You have to be in tunes with the times.

 

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The only kissing I see around here is alot of kissing the boss's ass.

voltasingh:

ha ha 1000000% right... 

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Is it me or does it seem like trolls have multiple accounts.

icnif77:

Yur tits are insulting a little bit. On this thread.

'Upper' for the 'view' , only! 

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i'm uncomfortable with child-parent intimacy, due to being unable to separate affection from sex. of all the problems that plague mankind, this one is worthy of a topic!

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More of a worry is the clamour by world leaders to be seen kissing She man's ass!

 

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You're complaining about seeing pictures of your hot yoga teacher kissing other women?

 

Why?

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He's a loser , he keeps stalker her wechat photo album and hasn't left his room for a week.

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For the last time, I am not complai....... ah forget it!

 

 

 

The question was, if you are not straight then why would you kiss someone from the opposite sex?

Lord_hanson:

Sex sells

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You are clearly Chinese (or an imported loser), you don't understand women behave differently from men when it comes to sexuality. 

Hell, nowadays men even joke around with their sexuality.

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