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Q: What's the term for a male 'mistress'?
And, does your country have something like them?
And also - here in China, a wealthy guy having a few mistresses is some sort of social indicator... but what about a wealthy woman having a few guys on the side?
I know they exist here but I don't know the exact name. Like Stiggs mentioned there are ducks. I once watched a Chinese TV show were there was a duck on it. He was some skinny 20 something bragging how he could have sex with a woman 16 times in one night. I felt sorry for the woman, he must last long each time. The Chinese have yet to learn quality overy quantity. Another interesting story related to your question. When I first came here there was an advert in Beijing Craigslist posted by a 65 year old woman looking for a tall handsome white man (future Vicky?). I know a couple of westerners who have had sex with women here in exchange for money. It is common. I guess that is similar. Prostitution is not too dissimilar than sleeping with one person in exchange for financial gain.
I think a kept man is called mian shou. The woman will bao yang the gigolo.
A duck is more like a male prostitute.
in the west I dont think there is a term for him, but she would be considered a sugar momma, and also possibly a cougar as well if she is much older than him.
silverbutton1:
ah, yes there is a term in the west, its "cabana boy".
I remember last year in a nearby town a couple of old tuhao whales rented a duck fir the weekend.
Apparently they fed him some pharmaceuticals and while one whale was shagging him the other jumped on the poor bastard's face and smothered him to death.
Not something you hear everyday.
He is a gigolo
iWolf:
I'd trust Cub on this. He has experience.
Remember, he is penniless box maker that is coming to china on a rich seamstress's dime because he can't afford the airfare. Actually I'd call that a mooch.
Manstress...but I have serious doubts that a Chinese dude could bring payable pleasure to a woman through his tongue or his member....just sayin....I charge 10k RMB a month to be a kept man...plus presents....but when they want more (as they always do) I flee.
'Mistresson' .... and it looks it isn't spelled right. I don't have detail about 'mistressons in my country'.
I'm thinking you could google it, buTT....then, you don't know, where do I come from. I admit, it's tricky overall.
