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Q: Which would you prefer: to be married to a Chinese man, or be single and poor?
And lets say the Chinese man has good job. A civil servant
10 years 40 weeks ago in Relationships - Other cities
I have to go with Single an poor as I prefer no backdoor action.
But had you asked "Which would you prefer: to be married to a Chinese woman, or be single and poor?", then I'd probably go with married. And being a civil servant isn't that bad in China (in some cases you can even live decently without hongbao)
What on earth is this question about?! Why would marrying a Chinese man be a bad decision just because of the nationality?
Paulberger:
welcome to the wonderful world that is echinecities' questions.. it keeps you entertained if you take most of it with a grain of salt.
Depends- would he give me a reach-around?
But really if you are getting married to improve your financial situation it's time to take a long hard look in the mirror...
Think, maybe...what he's trying to say that being married to a Chinese guy is not necessarily a good thing??
That may explain why you see so many Chinese women with foreign men ( & often NOT to get money or a green card) & rarely see a foreign woman with a Chinese guy.
Why is that??
Think, maybe...what he's trying to say that being married to a Chinese guy is not necessarily a good thing??
That may explain why you see so many Chinese women with foreign men ( & often NOT to get money or a green card) & rarely see a foreign woman with a Chinese guy.
Why is that??
dom87:
mostly because of manners and often foreign girls are bigger and thus they are not attracted to most of the chinese men