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Q: Why are men specifically attracted to Chinese girls extra creepy?

Maybe cause I'm from a city full of Asian people I've never seen this mystique. But whenever I see people say things like "I want a Chinese girlfriend" or something like that I think "What a loser." Who goes out specifically asking for advice on how to get a woman of a certain ethnicity?

Also, I may be married to a Chinese woman. But I certainly didn't set out to do that. I'm not talking about guys who are here cause they have an easy time scoring and happen to think Asian girls are good looking. I mean the freaks that want an actual relationship SPECIFICALLY with a Chinese girl. I don't get that. I've always dated whoever I happened to fancy.

....racking up the bedroom passport is another story, but as far as relationships go, I find it creepy.

12 years 28 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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It's the EXOTIC features. Then to I like Lations, Black, and all the other types that exist. I might mention too that it is all good with the lights off. Truly it is.

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Pot calling the kettle.......

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I'm not creepy, I'm dashing, and don't you forget it!

11 years 49 weeks ago
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Dashing it is....

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I guess some people like asians, so once you're in China, Chinese people are, you know, kind of abundant.

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To me, there's something slightly usettling about a person, of any gender or ethnicity, who is looking for a racial-fantasy-fetish-fulfiller, rather than a partner. 

 

It's not just the foreign-guy-Chinese-girl thing. I used to work with a local girl who had a MASSIVE thing for what she called 'the black guy, but only the good black guy, the one from the western country', and she'd spent a LOT of time detailing the exact physical specifications she required, before announcing she was going to move to Africa! It creeped the hell out of me and pissed me off immensely...

nevermind:

Jesus, that is creepy. But I guess it's the exact same as the akward white guy declaring a move to Japan or Thailand.

11 years 49 weeks ago
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i can understand her. she's been sexually deprived her entire life. the men here have no physic to speak of. and she probably watched porn, sports or just regular movies and then the fantasy of fulfilling her sexual desires started to grow and grow. everyone has has different sexual fantasies that they pursue at different levels. some are ok with not fullfilling their sexual desires and at the high end some will accept absolutely nothing else other than their sexual fantasy. to each his/her own. 

(damn i wish i could have met her)devil

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As opposed to all those black guys from Viet Nam?

11 years 25 weeks ago
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As opposed, specifically, to Africans, Kchur, because "they all sleep with too many women". A model of PC-ness, she was not!  

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Yesterday while shopping around in Guamao 2 seedy old dudes were teaming up on the young chinese girls. 

 

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dont agree with you.  many of them are just normal 

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I think I'm about ready to dump her. Where can I find a red headed Scottish woman in China?

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Nevermind, I agree with Alex. Why do you assume that the person is creepy? ? Some men like/prefer Asian gals..so what? ?

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I've met guys who only like asian girls and yeah sometimes it comes across at creepy. But the more I think about I think "so what?".....I think brazilian girls are really really sexy, does that make me a creep?  

 

Some people are just attracted to certain type of girls....as long as you arent doing anything weird I don't think it's too creepy. I know a friend back home who's only dated overweight girls, a bit weird sure, but thats his thing for whatever reason and he's happy and he aint harming anyone so whatever.

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I'm specifically attracted to only Chinese girls. Actually, only one Chinese girl: the one I married. Am I, Uncle Xiang, extra creepy? Well, I suppose you'll have to ask someone who knows me. I'm very kind-hearted when not involved in drive-by shootings.

 

Do you know what chaps my hide? When creepy people make posts like this so they can divert attention from their creepiness -- as if to exclude theselves from a demographic they belong to, but are too insecure to admit it -- instead of embracing it wholeheartedly. Now, I don't mean the bad creepy, just the good creepy. There is such a thing, right? Heck, I don't know.

 

And damn, I love Asians. Sorry, but they're much more feminine than a lot of women I met back home. That isn't to say they're all the same. Why, I just met the most masculine female lesbian (as opposed to a male lesbian) ever, and her seemingly-lesbian daughter (pink clothes, feminine appearance) who turned out to be a boy.

nevermind:

I'm married to a Chinese woman too. I'm not talking about regular guys who married Chinese people. Example, I had a boss once before I even came to Asia, I told him I was going to Korea to visit friends. He asked me "Oh, do you like Asian women? I do."

And then made creepy comments about skin tone and no back talk. I found out he also used to spend a lot of time in Thailand. 


That's the kind of creep I'm talking about and if you're like that, you are a "creepy uncle xiang"

11 years 25 weeks ago
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Oh, yeah. I get you, man. I do. I wasn't actually accusing you with this post, it's just a trend I noticed among creepy expats who try to divert attention from their creepiness and deflect it onto someone else.

 

Creepy Uncle Xiang gets plenty of back talk from his wife, but he doesn't mind that. What I dislike is women who reject their traditional role of becoming a wife and mother, and instead embark on a lifelong career pursuit. That doesn't mean I dislike such women; I only prefer to avoid dating or marrying them.

 

My woman is great, and she's my equal. We are one; what's hers is mine, and what's mine is hers. Nevertheless, I am definitely a creepy Uncle Xiang.

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And these are private matters, truly.  Why be so judgmental? There are lots of creepy old foreigner men here, for sure, and there are lots of creepy, young foreigner men here, and the same goes for the locals and on the other hand, there are innumerous respectable foreigners, young and old, etc., etc.  Kind of strikes me as a small-town attitude, IMHO, nothing more.

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No, these aren't "private matters" I can talk about whatever the hell I want on here. 

11 years 25 weeks ago
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I completely agree with your comment about talking about whatever the ___ you want.  The rest of us can do the same, too!

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It's not that I've got yellow fever. It's that I find Western girls' attitudes to be too masculine, their divorce rates to be too high, and their desire to marry too weak. White girls and Chinese girls are both pretty. But the latter have a better track record with marriage and femininity. It doesn't have much to do with their outward appearance.

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all wrong, don't even know where to start

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Yet another CCP mouthpiece on the site.

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I'm not too sure if he's a CCP mouthpiece... the girls I've met around here are exactly like he describes. They lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, get drunk, etc. Then again I come from an Indian Reservation, and as soon as I stepped outside the world was completely different.

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Yes, I am indeed one of those on here who really does like China. And, it's not wrong. The divorce rates in Western countries are much higher than in China, and in can't eighty percent of those divorces, the wives are the ones who initiate them.that This is not open to debate, as it's a matter of national census records.
Now, our definitions of femininity do probably conflict, as do our definitions of a healthy marriage. Those are relative terms. What is feminine to me might not be to you and your ilk, and visa-versa.
You seem to have been burnt in the past by the girls here you've tried to date. For that, you have my sympathies. I try to encourage Western men who are not open-minded to multiculturalism to avoid romantic endeavors here for exactly that reason; their adventurous and often scandalous attempts tend to hurt everyone involved.
My advice? If you don't like China, consider leaving. There are hundreds of other countries to hunt for your next ex-wife.

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"Western Countries"  pick one!!!!!!  They aren't all the bloody same!

9 years 51 weeks ago
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In the specific contexts of marriage, courtship, gender relations, and gender expectations, all of them really are similar enough to group together. I don't feel the need to specify any one in particular.

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Everybody has different tastes.  Get over it.  

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When I grew up, there were very few non-white girls around me. There were a few black girls, but they didn't seem much different in behaviour. By the time I had hormones, I was developing feelings for girls at school, but they were consistently attracted to jocks and bullies. The few Asian girls I met were beautiful and mysterious, didn't seem into the attention-seeking popularity thing (again, I had only met a few and boy was I mistaken), and I had never sewen one who smoked. I'm speculating, but perhaps Asian girls met my rigid teenage requirements of the perfect woman, where girls of *my* race were disappointing me and forcing me into denials and rationalizations about my self-image.

I may have let my misconceptions lead me into relationships with Asian women. At this point in my life, I have some regrets about the decisions I made. But my 2nd child will be born this year, so I wouldn't want to turn back time. I've made my bed, so I'll lie in it.

Why are men attracted to Asian women? Neotenic selection. For that, I'd refer you to my blog, under the chapter Biology: http://space.echinacities.com/112751/blog/detail/2051

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Ive been here 7 years and ive never came down with yellow fever. I hate asian porn ( i can only watch it when the volume is turned down. Shut up ladies!) And in alL my years here only been involved with 2 chinese girls. One was known for her western shape.. And the other ( my wife) is definatly a chinese girl but because shes so damn cool ethnicity had nothing to do with it.

Unfortunately she knew me years before we ever got together and is well aware of my tastes. To ease this point of contention ive begun watching more japanese porn.....quietly.

mike695ca:

That had nothng to do with the question. Dont know what i was doing there. I guess the point is if your like my self and prefer a... Womanly shape. Its still a preference and therefore no less or more creepy than dudes who prefer asians.

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Thanks Mike.  Mano e Mano.  Except I love jap porn.  And fat chicks.  And my chinese shaped wife.  What a conundrum, he says as he reaches for (yet) another drink.

 

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I have yellow fever something fierce, and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Pretty sure I'm also super creepy. I love Asian ladies. They look so exotic and feminine to me. This is a personal preference.

 

I also married one, and had a baby with her. Attraction is one thing, commitment is another. I would've married her if she were white, black, red or brown, because of how awesome she is.

 

Again, I have yellow fever, I'm super creepy, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

 

And I don't know about you guys, but I come from an Indian Reservation. If I wanted to find a mate here, I'd be marrying my cousin. Generations of inbreeding = NO THANKS. I know some of y'all are cool with incest, but I'm not. I don't want to be related to my wife. I went as far away as possible to increase genetic diversity.

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Why are men specifically attracted to white women extra creepy?

It's called a preference, dingus, and everyone has them.
Personally, I come from a country that has a divirce rate around 60%, so excuse me if I look for someone originating from a culture that has a slightly higher value for family.

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I love you facially.

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Chinese sheilas are grouse.  Very sexy beings.  Check out the way they walk...the clothes they wear.  The way they love...

Sheeeiitt....  I'm gunna get me one!

 

 

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