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Q: Why is that Chinese girls always looking for foreign guys to date with??

is it like chinese guys cant satisfy girls or something???

12 years 29 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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two words: green card

maggiegirly:

Myself,a Chinese woman,Why I married my western husband,LET ME TELL YOU,IT'S TRUE LOVE,.as for the green card.I don't care,to be honest.

I have always wanted to live in China If possible as it's my country,my family and my friends are here,everything is familiar to me.

But again,We should not be so selfish,my husband has his family and friends in his country too,So,the best solution is to live in his country for some time and live in China for some time.Fair enough I guess.

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"chinese guys are great, perfect in every way" "chinese women only pretend to like foreigners to make foreigners feel less lonely in china and make them feel at home. because everyone knows foreign men are perverts , so china must be hospitable to outsiders because china is a great country with no flaws"

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Baivab:

well said ;)

12 years 29 weeks ago
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Sangoku:

I like the irony in your comment. My comment was banned about this topic.

12 years 28 weeks ago
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fish79:

The mind of a bigot is like the pupil of the eye. The more light you shine on it, the more it will contract.

12 years 26 weeks ago
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bill8899:

LOL shame we can't upvote a million times.

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biodamon:

your sarcasm is really fantastic.

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Deep down Chinese girls want the BT guy... They want strange things to happen in strange places... They also like "things" so they figure why not get things, go travel, use, use, use.... It's a 2 way street, fair is fair! Wink Laughing out loud Tongue Love Cool

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who wants the same old noodles and rice, maybe some salt and pepper is better.

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Exactly and opposites attract, and we are different mainly though from a western country so probably rich and  that is the MAIN attraction, money, passport, less so how you look and if you connect or can communicate. Very interesting and sometimes disturbing.

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Exactly and opposites attract, and we are different mainly though from a western country so probably rich and  that is the MAIN attraction, money, passport, less so how you look and if you connect or can communicate. Very interesting and sometimes disturbing.

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You'd better add"SOME" , Not ALL Chinese girls always looking for foreign guys to date with.most of my friends and classmates can speak good English,just a few of them (2 or 3 )  are looking for foreign guys to date with or already Married westerners .myself ,a Chinese woman,I've never expected that I would married a westerner,sometimes things are not like what we expected.

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another dumb question

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another pathetic display of misplaced nationalism

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By the terrible wording of the question it is safe to assume you are not a foreigner.

 

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not all the foreigners are native English speakers or can speak perfect English

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I dont know. I am not Chinese but you are so you tell me....

 

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Some girls date guys from poor countries, is it green card ?? HELL NO. 

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Define ALWAYS.....obviously I still see tons of Chinese girls dating with Chinese guys...the percentage is a lot higher than those who're dating foreigners...you may need to triple check your source then come back with a better question.

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"Why is it that Chinese girls are always looking for foreign guys to date?" You're mistaken. SOME Chinese girls want to date foreign guys, just as SOME foreign guys want to date Chinese gals.

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Please ...more foreigners come here to find girls to go out for ONS ok? Many foreigners around here show their interests on me and I know they just want to have sex...sick...
And one foreign friends told me that he has slept with many many Chinese girls and he is proud of this,he said he is young so that he should enjoy his life ! Yes,"enjoy",the most I heard from those foreigners is this word ,so they everyday go hunting ,find girls to show their "love" and take girls to hotel...
Sure some girls maybe want to go abroad ,so they prefer to find a native to be bf, but it is up to you,if you know she is this kind of person which you don't like ,why do you still go dating with her ?You know the reason!
As a Chinese,I see some differences between foreigners and Chinese men,I live among Chinese men ,so your different looking may attract me ,but if I am going to choose a foreign bf, it will be the same with Chinese guy,first he must treats me good and we love each other.
About the money,now it is not only to foreigners,but also to Chinese men,at least let me know that you have the ability to make money and we can live without thinking too much about the living expense ,don't you think so ?

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Hi and good afternoon from Shandong.  Read your post.  You made a few valid points and a few invalid points.  I'd like to give you my opinion now.

Re ONS, I disagree that "more foreigners come here to find girls to go out for ONS".  I believe more foreigners come here to find work.  ONS can be had the world over, not just here and not just by foreigners.

Re: "...they just want to have sex...sick..."  I learned a long, long time ago that everyone - male AND female - wants to have sex.  I don't think that is sick.  It's human nature.

Re: your one foreign friend who brags about the number of women he has slept with.  In my opinion, it is nothing to be proud of and it is a sign of immaturity.  And if your friend brags about his bedpost notches, his libido is probably stronger than his ego.  A driven libido does not automatically equate to a strong, healthy ego.  A person with a healthy ego does not feel compelled to brag about or be proud of anything, let alone his/her sexual prowess.

Your point about a man, regardless of nationality, treating you well.  Agree with you.  There are good men and there are less-than-good men in the world.  Up to you to make a judicious choice that works for you.

The issue of money.  In today's world, it is up to both partners in a relationship to bring home the bacon.  No more one-income households as in the past.  So, it depends on your goals, your commitment to self-realization, and how you esteem yourself.  Would you rather share the financial burden of meeting the living expenses with your partner by having a job?  Or would you rather be a "kept" woman, living off the money your partner earns?  Do you prefer to develop your strengths, abilities, intellect, creativity, professional ambition or are you the type of person that demands the house-car-bank account before you even think about entering into a relationship?

It's complicated, isn't it?

 

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I had to get a new QQ account and lost most of my contacts. If I accept invitations from women they announce immediately that they love me and want to come to the west. Funny my planes always fly east when I go home.

 Guys and guys posing as women want to know my size.

 

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some people like exotic things. 

same as one of the reason you came to China.

Red_Fox:

If I had wanted an "exotic" experience, I would have gone to somewhere exotic and not to a cesspool growing deeper and deeper each day thanks to YOU and YOUR fellow citizens who don't give a hoot about your beloved nation.  So, get a grip, clean up your act, and clean up your backyard.

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so why you came here? 

 

we are cleaning up your post colonize shits, basically. you white shits came here with your rules, and force the whole world to abbey them. 

i would only say we are too stupid to get in the hook. globalization is an occidental scam. 

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You sound like an idiot

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I was just imitating the way Red_Fox drafts sentences. 

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Not surprising that you would be good at imitating something.

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I don't think it's necessarily they want a foreigner - they just get coaxed in with the aura surrounding them.

The set up is very innocent in to thinking they're gonna experience a little culture and practice their English. Suddenly, their big stupid naivety complex kicks in with some girls falling head over heels halfway through a weixin chat/bar talk.
It escalates and shabang, shacked up and ticked off.
Good that it's cutting down in the cities, seeing less and less total losers here. They're all shipping out to the villages to get a taste of the Chinese booty now literally teeing them up for the fall. City girls know the deal and play the game....not like some village pushing 40yr old bum spouting their 6000 a month in the small China town trying to have a bit of skirt! 

. They make me laugh those teachers out in the sticks.

It's all fever for the flavour mind.

Red_Fox:

Man, you sound like Ezra Pound or Oscar Wilde.  Quite a descriptive diatribe you spewed on the board.  You MUST be one of those English teachers in some backwater village that you've just skewered.  Heidi-ho!

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it works for every " foreigner " basically in any countries i suppose. guys are so easily to hook while i was in france. i assume people just love "foreigners" 

 

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I dont get why i get a down.  Could I get an explanation, downer? 

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Don't foreign guys want Chinese girls?

 

I think some Chinese girls are popular when they are foreigners overseas.

crimochina:

have you ever been outside of china? 

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JustinF:

No. They are just a lot more easier to get than any other girls.

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nicholasba:

1th time ever(tomorrow s gonna rain condoms i guess...)  i have to agree with angri-banana justin, even if this doesn't apply to me.

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Not a dumb question more a question screaming for attention. 

Maybe he likes Chinese girls, but Chinese girls don't like him. 

Maybe we can send him to Thailand and than he can ask the same question on Thailand forum. 

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Because we're absolutely awesome!

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GuilinRaf:

No!

We are BETTER!!!!!!!!

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I stand corrected. 

We are AWESOMERRRR!!!

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I'd like to divide them into four categories

1) they divorced with the chinese guy with a baby, and foreign guys did not care about this while chinese guy will find it hard to accept because of the  face problem.

2) they are not the style that chinese guys like while foreign guys love.

3) they assume foreign guys mean wealth, high status, so that they can show off among other chinese girls

4)to be determined

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