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Q: Why do grown Chinese women often sulk like babies for no legit reason?
I didn't have much experience with Chinese women before coming to China, but man was it a shocker to discover that grown up, and therefore supposedly mature, women often act like sulking babies in public for apparently no legit reason whatsoever. The other day I met up with a lady friend and I commented that she looks tired (I may have also mentioned that she looks bloated too) and she refused to talk to me for the rest of the day!
Ahhhh, the monthly 'trash a Chinese woman' day. Awesome.
littlemick:
I hadn't really thought about it before, but now you come to mention it, by god your right MissA.
GuilinRaf:
Actually, women in general get a bad rap here, both Chinese and Western. For example, many cannot praise Chinese women without trashing the Western ones (which by the way, Western women in China are usually MUCH better behaved than us men. At least, those that I have observed.).
"The other day I met up with a lady friend and I commented that she looks tired (I may have also mentioned that she looks bloated too)"
why are some people so arrogant and ignorant that they do not when they 've insulted someone?
you really think she was upset about the you look tired????
you tell a woman she looks bloated, you do not apologize , and everything is supposed to be ok.
many people hold the belief that many of the foreign men that come to china are losers that could not pull girls in their own home country. sadly you are feeding that stereotype. you have no clue how to talk to a woman. bloated equates to fat. dumbass.
Shorty:
Women are women. They all want and love to be flattered, hate to be criticized, and long for affection and attention. Ask any foreigner who is married to a JAP (not japanese) and you will see Chinese women are not really that different in this regard. It is the Shanghai girls that scare the hell out of me!
thedude:
How can anyone answer this stupid question now after this answer? Perfectly said.
What a moron.
LAR:
"you tell.......................ok." Right on crimo..props to you.
stan118:
hahaha you is right mate,dont tell her she looks bloated and expect her to be happy,
My instructor, Kyle David, from Will-Excel TESOL wrote this piece on sajiaoing for The World of Chinese:
http://www.theworldofchinese.com/2012/02/chinese-slang-temper-tantrum-101/
Korean women do this more than Chinese women in my experience. Gotta love them.
Bro,
First of all, that's a totally legitimate question. It's called a lack of maturity!!!!! Plain and simple!! You'd better get used to it. S. Korean gals are the same way. Actually, many Asian guys are also quite childish,arrogant and STUPID like the retard running his mouth when he saw me this morning! * It's an ASIAN THING!!!!!!! Regarding your comment about the chicky being bloated..well, I can see how that upset her. Women are sensitive regarding comments about their physical appearance..especially in Asia. Ciao!
