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Q: Why do grown Chinese women often sulk like babies for no legit reason?

I didn't have much experience with Chinese women before coming to China, but man was it a shocker to discover that grown up, and therefore supposedly mature, women often act like sulking babies in public for apparently no legit reason whatsoever. The other day I met up with a lady friend and I commented that she looks tired (I may have also mentioned that she looks bloated too) and she refused to talk to me for the rest of the day!

8 years 3 days ago in  Lifestyle - China

 
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Ahhhh, the monthly 'trash a Chinese woman' day. Awesome.

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"The other day I met up with a lady friend and I commented that she looks tired (I may have also mentioned that she looks bloated too)"

 

why are some people so arrogant and ignorant that they do not when they 've insulted someone?

 

you really think she was upset about the you look tired???? 

you tell a woman she looks bloated, you do not  apologize , and everything is supposed to be ok. 

many people hold the belief that many of the foreign men that come to china are losers that could not pull girls in their own home country. sadly you are feeding that stereotype. you have no clue  how to talk to a woman. bloated equates to fat. dumbass.

 

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Everybody sulks, but not everybody sucks.

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My instructor, Kyle David, from Will-Excel TESOL wrote this piece on sajiaoing for The World of Chinese:

 

http://www.theworldofchinese.com/2012/02/chinese-slang-temper-tantrum-101/

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Korean women do this more than Chinese women in my experience. Gotta love them.

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Bro,

      First of all, that's a totally legitimate question. It's called a lack of maturity!!!!! Plain and simple!! You'd better get used to it. S. Korean gals are the same way. Actually, many Asian guys are also quite childish,arrogant and STUPID like the retard running his mouth when he saw me this morning! * It's an ASIAN THING!!!!!!! Regarding your comment about the chicky being bloated..well, I can see how that upset her. Women are sensitive regarding comments about their physical appearance..especially in Asia. Ciao!

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