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Q: Why do local girls like to complain and stereotype their foreigner boyfriends?
Why do local girls like to complain and stereotype their foreigner boyfriends but can't resist being with one?
Personally, guys no matter what background have their flaws. And there are certainly stereotypes for guys from certain backgrounds. But it doesn't or shouldn't apply to all guys.
If local girls are so frustrated with foreign men and branding them negatively, then why still look for a 'foreigner' boyfriend?
11 years 44 weeks ago in Relationships - China
they find a lot of cultural etc differences with foreign bf's which they find difficult to adjust... but on the other hand they are addicted to some of their features.... so they cannot quit and go back to a chinese bf as well.... 
Question : Why do foreigners like to complain and stereotype their Chinese girlfriends, but can't resist being with one? Answer : there are too many "whys " in life . we can't have all the answers .
crimochina:
my christmas wish list has two names on it you are one of them. i agree with you whole heartedly.
question just for reference. do you bite?
Jillian:
Check my comments . i did bite occasionally . just be careful ..
jyao87:
Yeah I can say guys are naive too. I k ow of this guy and he was young and loved all the attention he was getting. Not realizing thr attention he was getting were from pros. Then for months he was complaining like a girl saying how horrible it was. And one day he called me his hf was preggers. All along she had played him about using contraception. Then after a few more weeks and more mind games, and me getting abusive texts from the gf about how I should leave china or she will call the police. It's been a year, and we haven't spoken. As he has been banned from having anything to do with me. My point is, just be careful and I know some people are sometimes too sheltered from reality, and then come across some bad situations. But need to look out for yourself.
Jillian:
Hi，Jyao 87 , thanks , but your point suits for other Chinese girls not me . I am not that kind of girls who complain foreigners and at the same time claim "don't even like east Asian -looking man ".
and i am always very carful with anybody except my family members .
I think it is just culture shock. There are a lot of strange things that are hard to understand about people from other cultures. Being romantically involved with one makes you confront these differences on a daily basis.
Because they are just boring. They have nothing to talk except the relationship stuff. Sadly, I am OK with that.
because these girls are dump and they need some psychological treatment nothing else ,they are simply not happy with what they haVE
when foreign guys stereotype their chinese girlfriends/ ex gfs it is ok. when foreigners vent because they had a bad day it is ok. 1 girl has a bad day involving her foreign bf all of sudden "this forum isn't for that" closely examine the posts of the pasts that you have been happy to answer and poke fun at before you knock someone else please.
jyao87:
Not mocking anything. Sometimes It's not fair on others in making stereotypes. It's fine to be curious. It's fine to have a vent and ask whatever because there's a lot to understand with different cultures. But definitely not knocking fun, just asking...
