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Q: why Everyone want a foreigner BF?

Most of the girls in china want a foreigner ,white hamsome boy friend why?r the Chinese bf are not reliable or not handsome like foreigner men?,

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Nah, it's only a minority who go for foreign guys, most Chinese girls are still very traditional. Those girls who go for foreigners are typically urbanites from the middle class or even daughters of very wealthy families, they are more educated and less traditional, more independent both in terms of personality and financially, for these reasons Chinese guys don't want them (even though in my opinion they are the best around), because most Chinese guys think it's a loss of face to date a girl who's more educated or wealthier than them.

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Unless you have done a survey that proves most girls in China want a "white, handsome boyfriend", I think it is reasonable to assume that you are way off the mark. China has a huge population and most females do things in a very traditional way - that is to say, find a Chinese guy, marry in their early twenties and have a child.

 

There are some (and it still only a relatively small proportion) that do not conform to general rule. These girls have different ideas and priorities some of which are financially related, some dream of a life abroad, some like the attention they receive from foreign males, some perceive foreign males as being more romantic, more masculine or simply capable of providing hotter sex.

 

Then there are those girls that are discarded in Chinese society because they are perceived as being too old or have divorced. They are much more likely to seek love and attention from a foreigner.

Viki87:

Wow what a stupid judgement.

I am just simply attracted to the white men's look. Why in your comment,I only see the negative answers of why chinese girls are attracted to the foreigners.

Are you that not confidence about how white men look like? I often heard a lot of chinese girls talk how handsome a lot of foreign men look like. It's just a good pure attraction for them for most of us and it's good. 

Yes most of us want a handsome white bf because we do think they look better than chinese men in general. As a human,we like better looking man without question.

It doesn't mean the traditional girls don't want foreigners as I can see there is the attraction in their eyes.

The thing is many traditional girls don't choose to have a foreign bf because there is a language barrier,culture diffrence,they don't want to be far away from family.,etc

You speak about girls who are discarded in chinese society for being too old or have got divorced are much more likely to seek love and attention from a foreigner. Which isn't true. A lot of pretty single young women seek love and attention from foreigners and do not care about the green card. Don't be stupid.

i am 28,certainly I am the so called left over in Chinese society. But the fact is a lot of young chinese men are desperately for wanting my attention and love. And many don't mind dating someone older as long as they find her attractive.

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Viki, Viki, Viki... Kaiwen's reply was not about you, but Chinese girls in general and I agree with him.

 

There are many girls who cannot find a Chinese boyfriend as they are considered to be too ugly or too old.  Western men find them still beautiful.  But maybe its also because most Western men are not obsessed about face, money and computer games that Chinese girls are attracted to them.  

 

Maybe you are too pretty, that's why you can't find a boyfriend.

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Wow Vicky. I've seen dried up puddles that were less shallow than that.

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Nah, it's only a minority who go for foreign guys, most Chinese girls are still very traditional. Those girls who go for foreigners are typically urbanites from the middle class or even daughters of very wealthy families, they are more educated and less traditional, more independent both in terms of personality and financially, for these reasons Chinese guys don't want them (even though in my opinion they are the best around), because most Chinese guys think it's a loss of face to date a girl who's more educated or wealthier than them.

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Everyone?! No Way!

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Yeah, with millions more men than women, the vast majority 99% of women will end up with Chinese men...

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No why.

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Glamor Value ... ?!?   

For a change, men are being treated as objects of desire !

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Its the eyes. I dont know why chinese are obsessed about big eyes. also whatever the guys mentioned b4. money, green card, etc...

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