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Q: Why I don't get approached by young handsome white men in the public places?
Most foreign guys approached me are usually old or not good looking guys. But the cute young guys usually don't approach me in the public? What's wrong?
Young, handsome, white men do not find you attractive enough to approach you on the street.
It's like stealing candy from baby...this one is going to be good...better make some popcorn.
I used to wear T-shirt 'Approach me' in summer, and all cats flocked to my belly. Button.
You are making cub sad Vicky...... 
cub:
come on scotsalan, thats a cheap shot very uncalled for! Slow week?????///
Young, handsome, white men do not find you attractive enough to approach you on the street.
Why u want young handsome white man?what is the reason behind it?
Viki87:
Not because you have a weird taste on the bone on face mean I am bad looking
Because you come over as insecure and desperate and we can spot it a mile off. Unsurprisingly these are not characteristics that most adult men find attractive, therefore they avoid approaching you. I believe the closer you get to thirty the more this site will become inundated with your questions regarding white boyfriends. I also know that whatever we say you will ignore. I believe Einstein said the definition of stupidity is doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result each time.
silverbutton1:
damn wolf, you're eating alot of popcorn. better watch your weight.
iWolf:
Vicki & Cub (or as the tabloids like to call them Vikub) Vs Logic and intelligence.....riveting stuff. There can be only one winner, and two losers.
Young girls in Tahiti put white flowers behind their ears to attract the men. In France girls put perfume behind their ears to attract the men. In your situation I'd go for ankles.
The handsome/cute young White men can get model-like Chinese girls with a perfect figure and cute face whenever they want, they don't care about your fat ass.
Viki87:
Lol many care about my ass. Not every man goes for women have no ass likes you do. in fact,happen to know many western men complain about chinese girls have no ass and they lost interest
RandomGuy:
Meh, there is nice round ass and fat floppy ass, yours being the later.
Viki87:
As the matter of fact,I found a lot of men don't have taste and get attracted to my fat ass while complaining your so called round ass not actually an ass.
Lord_hanson:
If all you say is true about your ass then how come sexy white men don't approach you?
Viki87:
unfortunately my male friend and ex told me they are shy to approach women
Because you clearly just want a visa.
cub:
garbo, is it a crime for someone who wants a better life then what thier country can provide by wanting a visa? If someone offered u a trillion RMB or dollars would u leave the country u live in to get this as a improvement a new life if it was offered to u? Come on ALL would jump at this chance for a better improved life and future!
Viki87:
Cub. Good speaking. Nothing wrong with it plus I don't mind my white husband settle down in China with me if that's what he wants which I can be close to my parents,not bad.
Lord_hanson:
Cub, from your post accusing Obama of being Muslim we know you are a weird redneck so I will ask you this question. If someone paid you a million dollars would you convert to Islam and burn a bible?
cub:
lord, what has politics faith and religion obummer the muslum have to do with viki question and the subject she asked about? NOTHING ZERO ZILTCH NADA! Stick to her question
iWolf:
@Cub
Lord_hanson asks a valid question considering your reply.
How much would it take to convert to Islam and burn a bible? Or to just burn a bible?
cub:
no iwolf, lords question had NOTHING to do with viki question OR the subject at hand! burning either book is just that ,burning two books thats all! I know u both are fishing for info! Sorry it wont work! nice try!
Because I've lived in China for several years (5+) and have never met a women who discussed her ass with strangers.
Viki87:
Don't be silly. It's a forum people come to talk everything they want to say which they don't say in their real life. That is what Internet made for.
Big feeling of deja vu....I'm sure on of Vicky's previous incarnations asked the same question. You're like a broken record...
People say u find what you're looking for when you stop looking!!
maybe , you should consider it !
Also, based on what you wrote in comments,you mostly care about physical appearance!
it isn't totally wrong but it will lead you to people with same perspective, and the result is obvious, when they find someone more attractive than you !
i am not trying to say that outer beauty doesn't matter ,all i am saying is that inner beauty plays much bigger role than you think !Good luck!
Viki87:
I know. I made compromise on dating my ex. Some of my ex are just ordinary looking white guys even some are hot.
I am surprised that you really want an answer to this question, and that too in an open forum like this.
This leaves me wondering why young, cute, pretty Chinese girls do not ask this question ?
Viki87:
Wondering why you desperately wanting to talk with me on wechat?
cub:
@noel05 I am sure young cute pretty chinese girls DO ask this question But probably to thierselves and not on a public open forum like this one!
Viki87:
Cub,agree with you. I actually got female collegues ask me why they font get approached in the street. Plus not all pretty young cute chinese girls are open to discuss this on a open forum,some even may not speak enough English to be able to talk about it on ecc forum. Are you stupid?
Noel05:
Why i wanted to chat with you on wechat?
You can again send me friend request, and I may reply IF I add you again.
cub:
come on viki are u calling me names now? im disappointed Showing affections showing emotions being private is the way chinese are, am i right viki? Its a culture thing! So showing these things in public isnt encouraged so im sure chinese girls wouldnt discuss this on a forum even though they might know some english! Cinese are known to not be very open about thier personal private lives so i been lead to believe! Now tell me viki, am i stupid for saying this?
cub:
viki ,ok sorry for the misunderstanding but there are a lot of ''someone elses'' on this site
Chewbacca:
Don't say bad things to cub viki, He is a good man. A good woman like you should focus on insulting the jerks on this site.
Show us a photo and see if you are really that pretty as you said of yourself.
BHGAL:
I agree, it has been a while since we seen Vicki ... a nice selfie, I think would be appropriate. so we can help her in her quest for the right guy.
From everything you've shared with us so far, I'd say it's because you're repulsive on both the inside and the outside.
It's weird that they still wouldn't approach you, huh?
On and on about white guys...Its clear you have a mental instability and personality disorder.
I have been in China for a while...heres how it goes....
If no "handsome white guy" has approached it means your outside and inside sucks...meaning you are not as good looking as you think you are. I recall talking to you on Skype...youw ere so giddy till you found out I was black. I have been tasked with finding a potential wife for my client. I wanted to introduce a a young wealthy black American to you (I didnt tell you he was wealthy). You stated to me "It is a waste of time talking to each other I only date white men"
Since then I have watched you day post stupid questions about why you are still single. You place too much value on yourself. Soon you will be 30 and even more undesirable. You reap what you sow.
Why do you dislike black men so much Viki? You should care more about if the person is good or not. Only caring about looks will attract men who only care about looks. Men like that will leave you for a younger woman when you get older. I believe there are handsome and ugly people of all races, don't you?
Viki87:
I believe there are handsome and ugly people of all races, don't you? Answer for this question: It depends what you view as beauty. Physical attraction is very important. I believe there are some nice looking white guy compatitable with me in personality and faithful. I just met a cute dutch guy while playing pool and trying to know him more^^
Chewbacca:
Good luck Viki but please don't care only for lust, it is a deadly sin that will destroy you eventually. I hope you can find love and beauty.
