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Q: Why r most foreigners(male) in China only want to get laid and act completely as jerk?

This is not what only I feel so, but most of other foreigners(female).
We all feel they r different from guys in Europe, America, Canada, Australian and etc.
Is it really simply because so many Chinese girls out there willing to offer everything? R they just simply spoiled?
The longer I stay in China, the worse I feel about foreigners.
I know it's wrong, but just couldn't help.

7 years 46 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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I personally don't have any special interest in foreigners, just feel annoyed when see or hear something. Or be treated as if I am also willing to offer myself, really want to kick all of them out of China.
But u r right, some Chinese girls r really disgusting……, cannot only blame u~

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7 years 46 weeks ago
 
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what are you afraid of ? pregnancy ?

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7 years 46 weeks ago
 
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its all about different mentality of every individual human being ...... you can not blame the culture or country for it .............

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7 years 46 weeks ago
 
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Wenna, I can't speak for moar than myself, but I assure you you are very very wrong. When I first met my Chinese girlfriend, she wasn't "ready to offer me everything". I had to work a lot. Made her taste red wine, and only after she would be moar entertaining. I really really love her because she's such a joker, always telling everyone we are getting married. Yes we argue sometimes, but it is because she is wrong but never wants to admit it. She's quite the opposite of what you think, Wenna!

As for myself, I do my best to be a loveable boyfriend for her, because she deserves the best. French wine, Italian, Spain. California, Peru and Argentina. You name it, she tried it! We dance, we joke, she even got the grasp on how to do a perfect spin-o-rama!

So in the end, you are double wrong. My Chinese girlfriend is not ready to give me everything for free, and I'm acting as best as I can to please her! It's a win-win situation, we are really really happy to the point where I'd want her to meet Sandy, Larry and Patsy, back in Montana, 'Merica!

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7 years 46 weeks ago

Getting halp from moar and moar people is like spin-o-rama high-fiving new friends on answers.echinacities.com with a tip of the hat finishing move.

 
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Don't be sad, Njord. Being sad doesn't suit a big viking like you must be! It's not because Wenna is different that you should let it get to you! As for your Chinese girlfriend, try to make her taste honey wine! Tell her it's from your countary, and that it would really make you moar happy if she tasted it. Maybe it will make your relation go upward, as it did for me with red wine!

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7 years 46 weeks ago

Getting halp from moar and moar people is like spin-o-rama high-fiving new friends on answers.echinacities.com with a tip of the hat finishing move.

 
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I don't know. I asked the question. Martin1947 told me Beijing had trouble producing honey, but there were places. I'm still looking. If I find a place to buy hydromel, i'll be sure to tell you!

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7 years 46 weeks ago

Getting halp from moar and moar people is like spin-o-rama high-fiving new friends on answers.echinacities.com with a tip of the hat finishing move.

 
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I completely agree with you Wenna!

The stories you hear and the things you see in the street are just nauseating...it's either young guys getting drunk all the time and sleeping around or old ugly farts with stunning young chinese wives, pockets full of money.

But in the end, there isn't much you can do about it, and the girls get what they want out of it...or they're incredibly naive and have no idea what the mentality is for the young airheads!

People want what's rare and different...or they want a partner with money. White guys, in Chinese people's minds, fit both those criteria!

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That's a first I'm starting to feel like the white guy minority ... on no'z!

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Consider that most but not all the men who come to china do so partly because they don't hav a girlfriend at home. they are not what western girls are looking for. They come to China and suddenly they are superstars who get all kinds of girls. even if the girls ar no where near the idea of beautiful or even pretty in Chinese eyes, they are still thin and have nice hair and are considered hot by foreign guys who don't have the same ideas of beauty. Speaking from having many guy friends in china and seeing them dating chiense girls i can say the girls noit always but often who date foreigners were looking to date foreigners and someone who is out looking for a guy based on his nationality will get what they are looking for and think its a prize. So these guys egos blow up and they become classic jerks where once they were just nerds or losers.

taste the truth

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7 years 44 weeks ago
 
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Yes Njord...but it can and has been done!!!! Wink

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7 years 43 weeks ago

Live your life...do what you think you might like to do...challenge your fears...life is full of risks..change is about taking a risk...if you dont take risks you dont grow and thus never change!

 
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I hate about half of the Westerners I meet in China (I'm an American) and I think it's because some of them were just born as douche bags but China also has a way of changing people. Alcohol is plentiful, job opportunities are everywhere if you have a halfway decent education, and no matter how attractive or unattractive you are it's usually pretty easy to find a girlfriend.

Some of us just let it all go to our heads. Not me though. I'm a cool guy I think. Cool

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Give the nerds power and they could take over the world!!!!!

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In answer to your question (and unfortunately verified by the answers here), it is because there are way too many jerk foreigners in China. Sometimes I am even ashamed. I cannot give a defense for their actions, but I can offer a few explanations.

Foreigners do not have a "home" in China. There is no permanency. So marriage is usually out of the question. But the sex drives continues.... they are far from home with noone to watch them. When Jerks are in this situation, they act like.....Jerks Tongue

Culture differences allow Chinese girls to wear these micro mini-skirts and shorts and high heels (clothing that would mark a girl to be promiscuous in the West) along with those cute coy smiles....this will drive a Western man to almost madness Wink

The foreigners in China are not typical. It takes a certain type of person to go to a foreign country and culture to live. Also foreigners are more direct and outgoing (usually). Foreigner men want the same thing that Chinese men want. We just have the gall to actually go for it. In short, Western men are wolves, Chinese men are sheep.

Whatever the reasons, though, there is no excuse for being a Jerk and as I said, there are far too many in China.

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7 years 42 weeks ago
 
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you are correct in saying China has a power over Westerners .
some not all come here and change completely . And I do mean become jerks big time.

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I doubt you have enough day to day contact with foreigners to have a regressive opinion of them. You're just being racist.

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7 years 42 weeks ago
 
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Men are men and so many of them will be on the lookout for sex if it presents itself. But this is not the relm of only Western men. Chinese men will also take advantage if possible. I know quite a few Chinese men in Australia and i would have to say they probably have a larger proportion of them who visit sex workers than the australian people I know. They tell me and others about their spending etc on this and do so openly. When I ask them why they just say that one women experience is not enough. The same with the local men I know in China. Most of the ones I know who have money spend plenty of time with women other than their wives. Why? Because they can afford it and have the oportunity. No different from a Western man in China who is presented with the same oportunity.
So forget the stereotypes. It has got nothing to do with race. A fair proportion of men from any race will take the oportunity to have sex with many different women and it just happens to be a fact that the oportunities may be greater for them in China than in their own country, just as they may be greater for a wealthy Chinese than a poor one. So does money make you want to get laid more. No of course it doesn't, just the same as being Western doesn't.

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I think it's safe to assume that most men who go abroad try to get a taste of the local..."flavors".
But also a lot were told by their friends or the internet that "Chinese women are easy" etc.
And truth be told, they are not as easy as they claim, but there are gold diggers aplenty. Those gold diggers know where foreigners hang out, and foreigners are brought to those places when they come to China, so of course the first and only women they'll meet will be the gold diggers (or the eventual women who simply want to have fun), directly impregnating their minds with that image of "easy women".

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Sex is easy here. And wherever sex is easy, the slimy undergrowth start to appear. If you think China is bad, check out the Philippines or Thailand. Sorry to say, but such places are a magnet for people of low character.

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7 years 35 weeks ago
 
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I disagree
Most of the westerners ive encounterd have been pretty normal.
admitadly they are usealy married and have a family
Ive been married 5 years now and I still open the door for my wife or any other lady that
is in my company because that is the way I was brought up.
maybe you are just mixing with the wrong type of people and need to change the circle your in
But I am the first to admit that most of us Australians are the bigest show off's on the planet. Wink

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...because they can! In their home country, they're probably just dummies but here, with money and power, they feel like Superman on lsd...

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7 years 32 weeks ago

"What goes around, comes around"

 
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I don't want to get laid...but I'm a jerk

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Maybe because they can't get laid and they are naturally a jerk just like what rasklnik said, but he also doesn't want to get laid. 

It's a combination of inferiority complex disorders. They think they are superior and when they get rejected it hits them straight down the middle of their gut and eats away at them until they become a jerk if not already a jerk. 

Here's an example Dr. Jekyle and Mr. Hide. They want to get laid act nice but when they get rejected they turn into Mr. Hide and become a jerk!

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Localla made me miss wenna, and Mattaya or whatever her name is 假洋鬼子 made me miss localla. What is happening to me??

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