cub:

uniqlo, if u had a business a company in china u started and it was making u wealthy [according to chinese,] and u married moved to your husbands country would u keep the business run it from the internet in your new country or start a new business maybe expand the business u had in china to the new country u moved to? Not all chinese are lazy looking for a green card either. Some enjoy thier work making money after they marry. i guess it depends how ambitious the lady is. To some chinese ladies staying at home being bored isnt thier idea.

Uniqlo:

Depending on the b business cub. I'm happy to make my business global.

Owning a business is very different from working for the others.

Even Americans must work hard for their own business.

I guess you are just an idiot

Hotwater:

You guessed right..........

retiredinchina:

She will continue to work herself to death, money and status is all that matters in China, it is all they know, values are a western idea and not worthy of any thought. She will call you lazy if you don't keep up with her, the good news is after 3 years, you can trade her for a different model. Sorry for the pessimism but it is what it is. A workaholic is a workaholic, economic status, race, country have nothing to do with the matter.

cub:

no uniqlo, idiots are who want to cheat be unfaithful to thier spouse [real or imaginary] sleeping around with any schlub then trying to cheat and scam a immigration system just for the allmighty dollar and green card now thats idiotic uniqlo! So yes, i guess im a idiot without any STDs have respect for my body for my self and others still have my dignity and wont die of AIDS or spread it around and share this disease with others!

cub:

retired, are u speaking or your own personal experiences of others u know or have known or are u speaking for ALL chinese u never known or met? Thats a awful broad brush u are using by assuming! Whatever ''is what it is'' as u said is only what u have made it to be not it has/had to be

retiredinchina:

cub, it's not personal, but yes I have seen many cases. the simple fact is there are no gods or religions of any importance sanctioned by the CCP, the result is your god is "money" and the pursuit thereof, and those who are very devoted to this GOD "MONEY" sacrifice all other concerns in life. they are not bad people, it's just this is all they know. Like teaching an old dog new tricks, they can change, but it is very difficult and in most cases not worth the effort.

cub:

well retired, then there is only one cure for this greed or ''love of money'' and man or philsophy mans limited wisdom cant fix or cure because all this is a inward heart a soul condition that man cant fix or change or cure without a higher help and its beyond any mortal carnal mans capabilities Now im waiting for the hate replies/arguments in 5...4... 3... 2... 1...

cub:

wrong about not getting any answers stiggs, u gave me a few answers robk retired gave a few more Englteachted is cluless dont know any answers So 3 out of 4 different posts isnt too bad

Stiggs:

I didn't mean replies to your post, I meant a definitive answer to your question.

I'm not trying to have a dig at you here Cub,there was no sarcasm or anything intended but it really is a question with no one answer. Every wife will be different, and it will depend on a lot of different circumstances.

cub:

stiggs, i know there wont be a 1 size answer to my question and there will be variables different situations And no, i didnt expect a 1 answer like I aid before stiggs, u gave me a few answers along with the 2 others that replied. Were all answers the same? No of course not but it gives me something to go on ok?

cub:

englteachted, with your snide uncalled for remark to a simple question and u wonder why newcomers and others leave this site or never keep this site alive by asking NEW questions? And u have the nerve to ask such why? Go figure sherlock

Englteachted:

'u' getting your characters mixed up? 

Typical Chinese thinking any question is good, troll questions insult people's intelligence. Attacking people for posting honest observations of China deters posters all together. Attacking people for saying a dumb question is a dumb question and answering your own dumb questions under a different account exposes yourself. 

cub:

are u looking in the mirror again while u are saying this englteachted? Typical arrogant replies from u as usual And again with the ''troll'' conspiracy BS again? Please, get some new material, something that sticks ok? Since u didnt come up with certain questions u are offended so as usual u insult skulk call names throw manure around hoping it will stick very. pointless. So if any question that u don't think of or asked or ''approve'' of is called ''dumb'' right? ''Good'' questions are ''NEW'' questions so go ahead discourage new members from wanting to ask ANY TYPE of question without the wrath of getting jumped on and slowly watch ECC fade away and die a slow death Must be a slow week for u engltheacted but then again, anything to keep ECC alive right? prove I have a account let alone two accounts englteachted can u? And when did I ''attack' a person at? Again PROVE this BEFORE accusing me! Go ahead englteachted,, invent your fantasy theories by all means and attack others falsely!, see how many new members will want to ask any NEW questions on this site I mean, why should they ask questions on ECC when u have all the answers?

cub:

thanks, yes im sure there are chinese women who would be like this if given the chance But then again any country has these type As the saying goes'' are u working to live or living to work? A lot depends on her character her upbringing and her future goals