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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Your Sliding Doors ?
I was thinking about that movie Sliding Doors and got to pondering what effects I've had on events and people.If I hadn't met my wife what would she be doing now? (probably rich and happy) .
How about her other friends and family that decided to immigrate .
What about before that ? What if I had never been born (wishfull thinking for some).
do you ever reflect?
7 years 34 weeks ago in Relationships - China
What if you were not born ........
There would one question less on this forum ....
What if you were not born ........
There would one question less on this forum ....
phil, the past is just that, the past it made or makes shapes u they way u are now in the present The past can be a lesson to learn then correct your present but dwelling on the ''what iffs'' second guessing yourself dont do u any good. Live now in the present, dont repeat your past mistakes go towards your future u shape it u controll your future its yours Life is short enough and busy as it is without worrying about your past. Use your past as a learning reference point a starting point now use your present as the middle point then go forward to the future as your goal point u control your destiny
Yesterday is gone and tomorrow has yet to be written. We do influence the people we meet and in turn are influenced by them but whether that is for the good or not, who knows. I believe all we can be is the best that we can be, even with our flaws. Treat others as we want to be treated and hopefully we can make this screwed up world a little better.