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Q: Help me reach future wife?

We met on web site some time ago. I would like to give her my QQ id number and receive hers also.The web site won't translate certain info, as they will loose fees i pay to stay in touch with her.  I know someone is aware of the 7 Days Inn hotel, she works at, it is a matter of locating the correct 7 Days Inn in hotel in Shenzhen she works at, it would be highly appreciated and you will be helping two people in love! thought i'd add there are a lot of negative, judge mental folks out there. The same energy to disrespect me could be use for positive>

11 years 37 weeks ago in  Relationships - Shenzhen

 
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Hey, buddy, you've never met this chick before and you're heading to Shenzhen to meet at a hotel? 

 

Get really drunk so your organs will at least be no good to them.

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Loooool

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Give her your email address! don't write address in original. Put in some blanks, and changes in your web site answer.

Give her your phone number, half numbers on the beginning of the text, another half in the end.

 

You can always trick website's bots! Just use your imagination.

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Or... You could show some gratitude to the website that allowed meeting your "future wife" and purchase a membership.  This will also show her that you are serious about finding the right mate and not trying to hide credit card purchases from the current wife.

 

As someone who has designed, developed, marketed and maintained dating websites in the past it really amazes me how far people will go to cheat the people who made the ability for them to meet their true love possible.

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Hey Xpat.John, what a luck to meet you here. ahahah. I am looking for someone to help with my website design. Shopify.com got me into trouble with a retail site while in fact I am looking for a wholesale site. I am penniless, just help an expat mate if you can. I am so zero in those things. 

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you are clearly a loser . do here a favor and leave her be. do the women of this world a favor and get neutered. 

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Well said. 

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get neutered...........LOL

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i didnt understand the whole issue with 7days inn.. u got some clue she stayed there at a certain dates???.. u planning to go to the hotel and ask for list of ppl who stayed in that hotel that date??? FBI??

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If she is indeed your "future wife" then the cost for membership is most certainly minimal! Why not cough it up and meet openly without lies or deceptions? See it as a small "thank you" to the site that made your meeting possible.

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Sorry, didn't notice XpatJohn said something similar up above.

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Hey, buddy, you've never met this chick before and you're heading to Shenzhen to meet at a hotel? 

 

Get really drunk so your organs will at least be no good to them.

Adina:

Loooool

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really 7 days inn give me an f break hold on to your wallet

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How many women did you have contact with, only one? Don't get your shorts in a knot. I met about 6 an hour and never took any seriously.

 I wanted to show my home to my GF and then let her decide if life together was a good thing. She couldn't get a visa, so that never happened. I may or may not see her when I come back to China. There are so many women and it isn't that easy with all gthe differences.

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have you thought about travelling to China and visiting the 7 Days Inns in Shenzhen...Crazy thought but you could actually stay in them too (only $20 a night)...

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I think I met her when I over nighted in Guangzhou, hate to break it to you you , but she's a 3.

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Let's address the real question.

 

I know someone is aware of the 7 Days Inn hotel, she works at, it is a matter of locating the correct 7 Days Inn in hotel in Shenzhen she works at, it would be highly appreciated and you will be helping two people in love! thought i'd add there are a lot of negative, judge mental folks out there. The same energy to disrespect me could be use for positive>

 

I am going to throw this out there... what your asking is hugely inconvenient for anyone, even for people in shenzhen. If you even found someone to do it. The cost they would pay going around looking for your long lost (though not entirely worth the 24.95(?) membership fee) would probably end up being the same.

 

So, I decided to use my energy for something less positive. But its because you should feel less than positive about your thoughts/actions.

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Oh boy!

After reading your addition, I really hope she finds someone better.  However, if you really like her and dont want to pay the membership fee, then why not come to China, stay at one of the 7 Days Inn in Shenzhen and visit the others?  Not only will that show your serious commitment to finding her and being with her, but you will also get the chance to actually meet her face to face.

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How about you try the 7 Day Inn website?  You do know that they offer a list of their locations, right?  Of course, searching for cheaper ways to contact your future wife might not be as involved as a simple search on Google.

 

So, here, is the link you need.  http://www.7daysinn.cn

 

And if you use a browser like Google Chrome, it will translate the website for you.

Xpat.John:

Oh, and knowing Shenzhen, I hope she is an actual employee of 7 Day Inn and not one of the numerous ladies who, uh... freelance there.

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Hey! dont knock it! If she freelances, then she knows what she is doing and nothing will shock her!

-You want me to squeal like a dolphin while wearing a clown suit??

-Um, yeah....

-Ok..!

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bye

 

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You only speak English...?

 

Where did you learn it?  'Cause, to be truthful, you don't sound American to me. You don't even sound native.

 

 

*Cue Admiral Ackbar*

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OK Cupid is free....

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i would more to introduce you some chick just around you...
anyway i hope u got the dough hehe!

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go to Hong Kong online dating, lots of woman need a man.

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no idea but good luck....and one more thing.....when your time comes it will come............be patient...

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???????? stay patient, your right person haven't come yet.

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