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anonymous
Q: How does a middle aged guy find a gf in Hangzhou?
I am a 50-something American teacher in Hangzhou. How do I find a Chinese gf? Age of gf not important.
12 years 20 weeks ago in Relationships - Hangzhou
You've got to be kidding right? 50? or do you mean 5?
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Girls tell me I am handsome but then don't respond to my witty, charming conversation
chineselovelinks.com if you get a friend that can read chinese .jiayuan.com they often have single parties around china usually monthly
Just don't look in the wrong places. Definitely not a bar.
If you find out, tell me!!! You can try Coco's... but apparently it's a bit dangerous for foreign males :(
Traveler:
I don't understand why you would suggest somewhere and then unsuggest it.
Shining_brow:
Because, it's a local hangout with lots of girls who are easy to pick up.... but it can be problematic if you're a foreigner. Which means - you can try and you have some luck, but there might be unfortunate consequences.
Short term: Any barbershop open after 11 pm, with pink lights and leggy ladies sitting on a couch.
Long term: Ask your friends to introduce someone to you.
You can also make it a point to go to every and all English corners in your city.
walk up the street and say hello to everyone until you find one that wants to talk to you, then talk more, then go for lunch, then after lunch go get married.
You could also learn to say "free i-pad" in Chinese....
There are a few great suggestions here:
http://answers.echinacities.com/question/25959
I'm willing to bet they'd work for any age.
TedDBayer:
that threat is collapsed because it got long. don't you think that sucks, cause it's too easy to miss it when its collapsed,,,
I talked to all the women I met that had dogs. i would say " nice dog" I have one and show them pictures on my camera. It is probably a good thing that I did not meet alot of women with cats, because I'm not sure how well " nice pussy" would go over.
well now it is plain to see you have no game, I found girl very easy in HZ, most of them are very curious about foreigners, just get out and start talking to a few and ask them to go for coffee, the star bucks by west lake is the best pick up joint in HZ, I spent 6 months there and could have had a different girl friend every night.
Get your game in gear mate it is easy to find a girl friend.
Do it the Chinese way. Make Chinese friends. Buy them dinner and Baijiu, do shots till you want to puke then eat as much as possible. Suffer their foreigner questions (Why you nose so big? hahaha). Casually mention that you are a widower and looking for a wife (it's easier that way, trust me), and the crazy China social networking machine will go overdrive, and you'll find yourself sitting next to a beautiful widow about 2.5 years younger than you at the next dinner. Guaranteed.
kchur:
I'd like to point out here, that the average life span for males is like nothing here, so this'll probably be a cutie. And everyone in Hangzhou wants a foreigner friend. It's a straight status symbol. This is easier than you think, man.
go to almost any hotel, go to third floor, look for girl friend, they let you choose from many
