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Q: How does a young white guy find an older Chinese women?

How should a 25-30 year old white american guy in good shape go about minding a decent chinese lady 35-45 for a mostly sexual based relationship. I figure there must be a lot of older women that want a younger guy for 1 night stand or a weekly sex session, but how do you go about finding it?

7 years 19 weeks ago in  Relationships - Shenzhen

 
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if you are not looking to pay it will actually be tricky. most women in that age range are actually more conservative. also they are desperate for husbands and will not do anything in the slightest to hurt their chances. being w/ a foreigner just for sex is a big no no. if anyone were to findout they would tell any prospective bf. chinese love to gossip especially when it comes to a woman being with a foreigner (a womans P is not hers to do as she wishes it belongs to the ccP)

but it is possible. but you will have to be somewhat heartless. single working mothers might be willing to engage in a mutually beneficial relationship if you help out. . 

also many married ("separated") women are looking for D. but do not give up on the single, divorced women. yoy might find one. 

never ask for a sexual relationship over qq or through tesxt message, get to know them , bring them to your home romance them , then tell them. 

 

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Have cards made and give them out, go to beauty parlours and hit on the mothers, ask women standing on the street at night.

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Ya kidding me.  Go to beijing and hang around in sanlitun for about 2 minutes.  Ya'll be picked up and taken for a ride ho.

Or go to any park early in the morning and join a dancing brigade - that's where to find the real cougars - the ones that have pre-mao experience.

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if you are not looking to pay it will actually be tricky. most women in that age range are actually more conservative. also they are desperate for husbands and will not do anything in the slightest to hurt their chances. being w/ a foreigner just for sex is a big no no. if anyone were to findout they would tell any prospective bf. chinese love to gossip especially when it comes to a woman being with a foreigner (a womans P is not hers to do as she wishes it belongs to the ccP)

but it is possible. but you will have to be somewhat heartless. single working mothers might be willing to engage in a mutually beneficial relationship if you help out. . 

also many married ("separated") women are looking for D. but do not give up on the single, divorced women. yoy might find one. 

never ask for a sexual relationship over qq or through tesxt message, get to know them , bring them to your home romance them , then tell them. 

 

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I wonder if there is someway to set it up online, that way the women doesn't lose any face and it can be a secret. 

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Go work in any private English language school.

 

There are heaps of women in this age group who would love what you are offering.

 

 I believe that is one of the main reasons many women join these centers

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Have you tried looking in the 'Yellow Pages'? 

 

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There are cookies, bookies and too many rookies for me to sit here trying to be a hooky! Looky Looky don't call me a wooky. Touchy Touchy Feely Feely Spicy Spicy Nicey Nicey & that's what the doctor Ordered!!

 
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How old? Ask Sparkey out?

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the expensive salons near the high end shopping centers are always a good option. also the training schools that send kids abroad have rich people around all the time. met many cougars before i settled down, the best are the mistresses that cant be seen with the man because he is married, you get to spend his money on her and she just wants to be seen with a man and hold hands in public.

usually she uses you to make sugar daddy warbucks angry so she raise her monthly allowance in return for dumping you.

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go to a good gym club, u will find

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7 years 5 weeks ago
 
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Hop in a taxi make a sex sign with your hand and say "wo yao zhege...yi bai kwai"

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Interesting. I think dating sites may be a good choice. Most single women over 40 have probably gone through a divorce and so for them, dating sites are the way to go.

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You can try craigslist.com

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i think  by money

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i think  by money

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3962 viewers can't be wrong on page 33 of most popular posts
Go to SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA?
All you will need to know is on that post

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No answer here.  How about a white guy finding an older white women?

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You have to pay dear here for this kind of ladies ! =))  It is China here ! everything is trade ! try www.asiafriendfinder.com   , there are lots, with pay or without, don't know, depend what you discuss , but a woman after 45 years old to say, is not so much interested in sex , I sugest you find a young one who want this if there are not reasons others than you said here , Maybe you want to be a gigolo for her ? ....  in this way you will get paid by her and have sex also =))

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I am sure if you are a hotty you shouldn't have a problem. 

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I am sure if you are a hotty you shouldn't have a problem. 

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