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anonymous
Q: How does a young white guy find an older Chinese women?
How should a 25-30 year old white american guy in good shape go about minding a decent chinese lady 35-45 for a mostly sexual based relationship. I figure there must be a lot of older women that want a younger guy for 1 night stand or a weekly sex session, but how do you go about finding it?
11 years 9 weeks ago in Relationships - Shenzhen
if you are not looking to pay it will actually be tricky. most women in that age range are actually more conservative. also they are desperate for husbands and will not do anything in the slightest to hurt their chances. being w/ a foreigner just for sex is a big no no. if anyone were to findout they would tell any prospective bf. chinese love to gossip especially when it comes to a woman being with a foreigner (a womans P is not hers to do as she wishes it belongs to the ccP)
but it is possible. but you will have to be somewhat heartless. single working mothers might be willing to engage in a mutually beneficial relationship if you help out. .
also many married ("separated") women are looking for D. but do not give up on the single, divorced women. yoy might find one.
never ask for a sexual relationship over qq or through tesxt message, get to know them , bring them to your home romance them , then tell them.
Have cards made and give them out, go to beauty parlours and hit on the mothers, ask women standing on the street at night.
Ya kidding me. Go to beijing and hang around in sanlitun for about 2 minutes. Ya'll be picked up and taken for a ride ho.
Or go to any park early in the morning and join a dancing brigade - that's where to find the real cougars - the ones that have pre-mao experience.
markpracy:
Ha, Ha, indeed.../ So beautifully said there happywanderer..
happywanderer:
I don't believe Shenzhen is so different that cougers don't congregrate for pre-mating dances in public spaces. 
if you are not looking to pay it will actually be tricky. most women in that age range are actually more conservative. also they are desperate for husbands and will not do anything in the slightest to hurt their chances. being w/ a foreigner just for sex is a big no no. if anyone were to findout they would tell any prospective bf. chinese love to gossip especially when it comes to a woman being with a foreigner (a womans P is not hers to do as she wishes it belongs to the ccP)
but it is possible. but you will have to be somewhat heartless. single working mothers might be willing to engage in a mutually beneficial relationship if you help out. .
also many married ("separated") women are looking for D. but do not give up on the single, divorced women. yoy might find one.
never ask for a sexual relationship over qq or through tesxt message, get to know them , bring them to your home romance them , then tell them.
I wonder if there is someway to set it up online, that way the women doesn't lose any face and it can be a secret.
Go work in any private English language school.
There are heaps of women in this age group who would love what you are offering.
I believe that is one of the main reasons many women join these centers
Have you tried looking in the 'Yellow Pages'?
DaveP84:
Sorry for this comment, but I bet there must be a few "Chins" in there...
the expensive salons near the high end shopping centers are always a good option. also the training schools that send kids abroad have rich people around all the time. met many cougars before i settled down, the best are the mistresses that cant be seen with the man because he is married, you get to spend his money on her and she just wants to be seen with a man and hold hands in public.
usually she uses you to make sugar daddy warbucks angry so she raise her monthly allowance in return for dumping you.
go to a good gym club, u will find
cooter:
Second this suggestion. I get more stares from women of all ages than I care for at my local gym 
scrappycoco:
Sookie is absolutely right, the gym club is the best and safe place to pick that age range of ladies up. I noticed a lady at my local gym who kept staring at me each day, then one day she walks up to me " give me your phone, i listen to music"
After i was done with my work-up, i went to her for my phone and then again she said " do you have weishen?" I said no and i left without knowing the lady already knew me from the school i teach because she always brings her kid to school but i never did notice her until she revealed herself to me one morning after the incident at the gym. she never talked to me on the school premises but she approached me at the gym, i'm not her kid's English teacher, is another teacher. Is a safe place buddy. just go register and they will fish you themselves
Hop in a taxi make a sex sign with your hand and say "wo yao zhege...yi bai kwai"
Interesting. I think dating sites may be a good choice. Most single women over 40 have probably gone through a divorce and so for them, dating sites are the way to go.
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No answer here. How about a white guy finding an older white women? 
You have to pay dear here for this kind of ladies ! =)) It is China here ! everything is trade ! try www.asiafriendfinder.com , there are lots, with pay or without, don't know, depend what you discuss , but a woman after 45 years old to say, is not so much interested in sex , I sugest you find a young one who want this if there are not reasons others than you said here , Maybe you want to be a gigolo for her ? .... in this way you will get paid by her and have sex also =))
belle_watson:
A woman over 45 is not so interested in sex...I beg your fine Robert_E_Lee pardon, child. As Mae West said, you can come over and peel a grape anytime, that is, if your little brother can stand a peeled grape.
I am sure if you are a hotty you shouldn't have a problem.
I am sure if you are a hotty you shouldn't have a problem.
