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Q: How to find a foreign guy to be my boyfriend ?

It's always difficult in Qingdao. Foreign guys here are so Shy .. O.M.G   They won't say anything to u even if  they like u . How could i do ??

11 years 43 weeks ago in  Culture - Qingdao

 
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Everyone's being so nice here - let me balance it a little.

 

Your starting idea is that 'foreign' guys you meet like you and want to talk to you but don't. Why do you think that? Perhaps they're simply not as interested as you think. Just because a man checks you out doesn't mean he wants to have your babies.

 

I don't think I met a single shy guy in China. I met some who liked their own company and didn't need to be around people all the time, but that's not the same as shy.

 

Regardless, the adult thing to do is to talk to people you find interesting and see where that takes you.

GuilinRaf:

Sorry Miss A, your balance failed. Your advice was also "nice". And, good point of suggesting she find someone SHE likes rather than the other way around.

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Thanks GR. Pogger, you'd be a busy lad, there's half a billion of them!

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I would not try too hard.  There are some foreigners in China that I would not trust with 5 Yuan.   If I were you, I would say no more than I would say yes.  To meet good people, try a a library, church, museums, clubs that offer things you are interested in.  I have met too many foreigners and Chinese people who end up with the wrong person because they were a little too  desperate to find some body- any body really.  I believe that love comes to you when you are not always looking.  Good luck.

KristenSwan:

thank you so much for the help ! seriously i do not really care about bf anymore now . Just que sera . anyway i will go the the us next year i believe that i will find my prince . thank you !

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Be nice to her! Consider her other options...

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Thank all you guys ! i don't care about boys anymore .  i will always get one just times , 

Thank you !

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That might be the problem: you're looking for boys when you need a man.

 

Girrrl (bum dum hum dum) you'll be a woooman sooon

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agrred!!and bump for moarrrrrrr

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Don't speak! I know just what you're saying, so please stop explaining- don't tell me 'cause it hurts!

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you could try with girls

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oh god is she really 14? what the hell how did her parents let her go online i need a shower

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