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Q: How long I wait before sleeping with Westerner?

I met this beautiful austrian and we going out for a week. He really nice guy but wants my pants bcause all west are like that but he maybe different. I want to make it late as possible and wondering how long is too long before sleeping together so he does not breakup with me? Maybe we can marry he works as english teacher in private school.

12 years 38 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Ahhh yes...the great chinese culture and tradition:
kids shit and piss on the street
hawking and spitting...anywhere anytime....women and men..
poison milk scandal ..killing babies because of it..
100 other types of scandals...
filthy everywhere....
people litter everywhere
Little Emporer syndrome is retarded!! (thats why so much relationship trouble)
poison air..
poison food..
Guanxi for everything...police ,courts, BULLET TRAIN!!
Fake everything......in everystore.
Save face...EVERY local Govt fraud and corruption....
Frying oil rip off ...(why I never eat from a vendor)
Rude people push in even when clearly you are next...
Dont worry dear we understand the great culture and tradition veruoglan...trouble is...you dont!! Wink
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luggi:

are you staying in china? i hope not...

12 years 30 weeks ago
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omg, what a true summary of China! 2 thumbs up

12 years 9 weeks ago
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12 years 36 weeks ago

Live your life...do what you think you might like to do...challenge your fears...life is full of risks..change is about taking a risk...if you dont take risks you dont grow and thus never change!

 
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Y u call me naive? Its truth you want us China to be all good and do what YOU want, but not want to adapt to China tradition. U r in China for sex but cannot understand our Great culture is different and u hav to adapt.

TedD, haw dare u say Chinese less mature? U met ALL Chinese women? how can say such?

And yes, Toad, my bf writtes bettr than all of u here. U don't need to be best painter to judge good painting!

I told bf i not ready, like he not ready to meet my parents. Hes not idiots like all u here, he understand because its real love. all need more is meeting parents, and see if he wants marriage. Its love, but im sure most here cant know because you just talk bad about China and will never understand China

12 years 4 weeks ago
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well seein that i just tried to defend you and from what I have seen,, yes less mature and naive,,,,same for my GF that I bought on EBay.

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12 years 36 weeks ago
 
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I always use the third date rule. After that if she is not putting out then I move on to the next.

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12 years 36 weeks ago

Come on thumbs down everything I say. rnrnPlease I like it thumbs down some more.

 
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It's been one week since you've been dating and you're already thinking about getting married when you don't even know this guy. You can't possibly be this naive. .

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Why wait, dumb lazy Chinese always procrastinating.

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Ahhh yes...the great chinese culture and tradition:
kids shit and piss on the street
hawking and spitting...anywhere anytime....women and men..
poison milk scandal ..killing babies because of it..
100 other types of scandals...
filthy everywhere....
people litter everywhere
Little Emporer syndrome is retarded!! (thats why so much relationship trouble)
poison air..
poison food..
Guanxi for everything...police ,courts, BULLET TRAIN!!
Fake everything......in everystore.
Save face...EVERY local Govt fraud and corruption....
Frying oil rip off ...(why I never eat from a vendor)
Rude people push in even when clearly you are next...
Dont worry dear we understand the great culture and tradition veruoglan...trouble is...you dont!! Wink
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luggi:

are you staying in china? i hope not...

12 years 30 weeks ago
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omg, what a true summary of China! 2 thumbs up

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12 years 36 weeks ago

Live your life...do what you think you might like to do...challenge your fears...life is full of risks..change is about taking a risk...if you dont take risks you dont grow and thus never change!

 
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Hi girl!
1. Most foreigners here in china are working and living, so china is their WORKING place but not their HOME. Their home is in their own country. So never think simply that if u sleep with him then he will marry you. Because sleepying with him even could mean nothing for a man. Because he only needs a woman to accompany with and satisfy his sexual desire.
2.For a western man , to marry a woman needs a long time, maybe 2 yrs or 10 yrs or even longer. e.g. how many yrs took William and Kate get married? So if you are still young and you truly believe that you have real LOVE between you and ur bf, then go ahead, but it is risky for sure. Because austrians like talking a lot …even when I was there I saw in real. So suggest you to see how he acts but not his words.
3.as for your question, if your target is to marry him, then sleep with him when you get marriage certificate. If your target is to have fun or have experience with western guy, then sleep with him anytime.
Last but not least, some foreigner friend told me one thing(he is mixed of 4 countries, including ,morroco ,spain .south america and canada )---- IF I WAS A CHINESE GIRL, I WOULD USE FOREIGNERS ONLY FOR SEX.
I don't know right or wrong I should put it here, but I hope this cound be some of help to chinese girls and think carefully and seriously before you sleep with foreigners. Tks Smile

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How old are you? All your posts here consist of boy-crazy nonsense. Do you have a picture of your boyfriend taped to your binder? Do you spend your days drawing hearts around his name?

Cause that's the impression I'm getting.

In that case, my best advice is to sleep with him. Maybe you'll learn something, just use protection and DON'T tell your parents... if you tell your parents they'll be mad at you.....

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"Last but not least, some foreigner friend told me one thing(he is mixed of 4 countries, including ,morroco ,spain .south america and canada )---- IF I WAS A CHINESE GIRL, I WOULD USE FOREIGNERS ONLY FOR SEX."

Sorry, without knowing his FULL ethnicity and what percentage he is of each one, his opinions are completely invalid.

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Njord, y marry Chinese, my perfect man is Austrian much better everybody here sure! Wink
He not like u all and we love he and me, he say he want to visit me Austria when posible!

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Please hurry up then and move to Austria where you will get your green card and access to his bank details, he will get a live-in dishwasher and 24/7 sexual fulfillment, and we won't need to hear any more of your naive, narrow-minded and frankly offensive opinions!

All the best! (you don't have to invite me to the wedding; it's the thought that counts)

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fall at your feet lol

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an austrian teaching english? you mean australian?

women have sex with a guy the second you feel like it ok

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Australian?? Jeez I hope it's Austrian not an Aussie coz his mates would tease him mercilessly if he bought one of these home.
Nah, can't be Aussie, would have bedded her well and truly within the week. Right mates?

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13 weeks any updates , ?? I have to now did she?

12 years 25 weeks ago
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three weeks now,, any roses or ipads ?

TedDBayer:

been 6+ weeks now and we all want to know, did ya, or get a ipad or did ya get dumped ??/

12 years 31 weeks ago
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TedDBayer:

so glad to see this pop up again,, so almost 8 weeks has anything else popped up? or in

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GuilinRaf:

18 weeks and 4 days and counting....

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Why wait, dumb lazy Chinese always procrastinating.

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