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Q: How you think guys and gals on echinadating?

How you think guys and gals on echinadating?Do they really looks beautiful even without wearing this layers and layers heavy make up?Do they really looks handsome?So many questions on echinadating,be careful,guys and gals:)plese don't get big sharks.Or  it will get you shocked.Lmao

11 years 40 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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What are you talking about? Can you elaborate a bit more, pls

NotGuilty:

Let me ask a bit more, are you talking that the guy is handsome (claiming to be or)  but in reality looks like a hippo and the gal talking like Fords model but in fact is 500kg an 99 cm tall?  or that someone is rich but in fact is poor or claiming to be poor but is loaded?
BTW
Men hunt, Women fish :)

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Victoria1987:

I have seen lots of pictures displayed on echnadatting,lots of chinese girls looks good,but I am a girl have seen lot of chines girls from big cities and small cities,most of them do make up to cover their face up,honestly theyare not that pretty,so dont easily to get cheated by them.

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Victoria1987:

Kind of,not just about loking,there has lots of cheating,some guys and gals may have already got married,just come here to find some lovers

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NotGuilty:

As a guy why would you think/say that i  care how she looks? 
Anyhow, sooner or later the truth comes out anyway so what's the point doing it?
Unless someone is a hunting sofakrieger* and addicted.


explanation of the term sofa-krieger, widely used in Norway, Denmark and Germany.
equivalent to the "keyboard warrior" (many variations of them lol)
sofa is sofa or the couch and krieger=warrior
So how do you look? concerned?
 

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NotGuilty:

Explain how do you cheat on Forums? makes no sense.
 

But i know from experience from other expat forums that there are some men
(it is a minority) have wife lets say in the UK with a kid or two..got job overseas on some oil or mine company..found the local girl and figured why go back?. plus avoiding paying child support which in UK is a big thing and you are hunted for..
but the truth comes out sooner or later too..There are no iron-strong secrets in the 21st Century...i know one guy that got busted and left the forum in the hurry....
As I said it is a tiny minority.
Local girls, we were calling them the "gold-seekers" or "defectors" wanted to nail the guy to go to Europe, Oz, US or whatever,which also is a kind of the Eldorado seeking type of endeavor...

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Victoria1987:

True,most chinese girls are kind of material,sometimes girls told I am not normal just cause I don't really care about those things,think how crazy they are,they are just lazy ,just wanna catch a guy to marry with, then use his money,Then complain their  husbands are not faithful,I am wondering are they worthying to have a faithful marriage?

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Victoria1987:

That is a creepy phenomenon in Chinese socity,most girls will say I dont need a very rich husband,but still not a poor guy.wooohoooThen they tells they re not material cause they dont look for very loaded guys.But still cares how much money guys have.Good defenses.

Then if a girl dont act like that,they will say she is not that normal,how can gt married without money?

That is the currently socity of china,always money money money.Most guys and gals are the same.

 

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I just don't think there area lot of people on there, certainly more girls than guys. Guys without pictures keep messaging me, but I won't respond. And in my photo, it's a webcam photo, but I wasn't wearing makeup and I didn't edit it. Same with my profile picture here, though I used my iPod for that one.

Tapwater:

Girl of my dreams... I have a photo but you never answered me

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Victoria1987:

I have no idear of you,tapwater.lmao

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Jnusb416:

That dating site hasn't worked for me lately. I try to open a message, and nothing shows up. You can't refresh it either.

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bill8899:

Gosh you look great! But maybe ... you need to get more sun! You're taking that white skin thing a bit too literally, don't you think?

Haha joking of course.

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mArtiAn:

  Your profile picture on here is of a dog, Jnus. Some kind of collie. I do not believe that is you.

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Jnusb416:

I used to have my own picture, but I changed it for privacy.

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I don't use dating sites. It's not hard to meet women in China, a simple '' Goo Lie'' and I can talk to them. As for what women look like, the more I like them, the better they look.

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Victoria take a deep breath relax, watch some romantic film and then go out on the town. what is meant for you eventually will come your way...
Looking for money? The bells will toll fast enough to warn me. Want money? Get lost.
Money is the most corruptible thing that humans came up with..
Blame the Phoenicians LOL 
I'm also a member next door as pogger said out of curiosity and I'm not impressed.
I do use my real photo..picked the first one that pop it out in my pictures folder. don't care.
I have no iP's Apple family products in my possession.. I'm an Android man and still use my Palm Treo..believed or not..I can do more things on my Treo (the camera sucks though)
then one can do on iPhone..including but not limited mounting Linux OS

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Dating sites are good to waste time at the office. Real life is good to meet people. 

danielmarino:

Oh, BTW, I truly believe that cheaters will not get a profile on a dating site, it is way easier to go to a bar or a disco or just anywhere in the street if you want to find a lover. It takes too long to find somebody online and it usually is...boring!

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Victoria1987:

Danielmarino,I am 100% hatttttttttttttttyou,why your so sure I care this fucking western passport?

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danielmarino:

 

Dear Victoria, 

 

What you say makes me extremely curious...

 

Please read carefully, very carefully my post.

 

Now, read again...

 

once more...

 

 

Did I mention anything about a passport? 

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Victoria1987:

You wrote:Will Victoria gets her so desiredwestern passport ?Also you made rumor about me and Mattya,I even don't kown who he is.(Does anyone else think Victoria should meet mattya?Perfect couple?Is Mattaya chinese)

I kown what you mean,now I see there are a lot of mean people there.

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Dear all,in the real world,no people will tell girls you desire them,no one will tell your boss I hate you,on chinacities.com,we are here just wanna be ourself,enjoy.Have some relax...just that.

 

WonHungLo:

I just broke up with my girl friend

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Anyone else thinks Victoria1987 should meet Mattaya? Perfect couple? Would that get Victoria her so desired western passport or is Mattaya Chinese? So many questions in echinacities...This is my favorite sitcom!!

 

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Victoria1987:

You are not a decent person,you said it,then denied it.funny

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danielmarino:

Dear Victoria, 

 

Sometimes people make jokes, just for fun. You should give it a try it's stress relieving and the occasional smile helps you get through the day. 

 

Try 9gag.com, it's a good start for understanding ironic jokes & sarcasm. 

 

Example:

When I returned to my city from my vacation in Bangkok most of my colleagues asked me how it was. I replied: "My new Thai girlfriend says a small penis should not be a problem in a loving relationship. I still wish she wouldn't have one". This, is obviously a joke for me and maybe 3 or 4 colleagues really understood it as so but the a majority of about 20 people are still confused and can be divided in two main groups: (a) those who think I really have a Thai ladyboy girlfriend, (b) those who think I have a small penis. 

 

Yours sincerely, 

 

Daniel.

 

 

 

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I've tried really hard to meet good girls on dating sites. My feeling is that these sites are rigged toward guys who game the system. They message every girl they can and work hard to craft the most interesting message.

 

Much more than real life interaction, this brings out the most self-centered, picky aspects of female members' personalities.

 

I say this but generally I'm just too lazy to date women. I'm not going to go out of my way to flatter a girl.

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On a side note, and I am not implying that echinacities does this, but a lot of dating sites are filled with bogus profiles that are computer generated to make the site look busy.  At least this is what every client I developed a dating site for has requested from me.

Jnusb416:

Even without that, I assume a lot of profiles have fake pictures. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is, but a lot of people fall for that.

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Xpat.John:

Oh yes.  Fake photos, glamor photos (which might as well be fake) and photos taken many years ago are very common.  Also, lying about height, weight, age and income are very common as well.

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I put a picture of me with a tiger on echinadating and already got a couple of dates (not me, the tiger).

Victoria1987:

Maybe you just go there for one night stand.lol

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danielmarino:

Considering most people on dating sites are not from my city, one night stands are quite expensive. Should be a two night stand to make it worth the traveling. 

 

 

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Hypnos:

If dinner is included, it becomes a good option to consider wink

 

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danielmarino:

Definitely Hypnos, although they should pay for dinner. 

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Hypnos:

Of course. After all you are already gave then the honor of your presence. :) How many can say they went out with a guy that had a picture of a tiger... :D

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You look good to me!

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My favorite part is when I see the age range of the men they want to marry. For example, I have seen 23 year old girls who say the age range for their ideal partner  is 18-70, come on, get real.

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Hmm, let me take a loo——baby do not like you, dirty foreigner, how stupid you are!

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I don't get it. It seems to me like you are judging them by looks alone. There is more to that than just looks. If the person is smart then it can make up for a lot of things. You don't want some really super hot looking person in your life if they are only interested in one thing and that's not you!

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There are cookies, bookies and too many rookies for me to sit here trying to be a hooky! Looky Looky don't call me a wooky. Touchy Touchy Feely Feely Spicy Spicy Nicey Nicey & that's what the doctor Ordered!!

 
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I've always been very paranoid of dating sites in China.  Any girl that is specifically looking for foreigners on there really makes me think one thing.... GREEN CARD. 

 

For a quick fling I think they are fine. For a serious relationship, I'd stay away from dating sites in China and  try to meet a girl in a place where they aren't actively looking for a foreign person.  Dating sites seem way to forced and unnatural to me.

 

With all that said, I do know a few people who have girlfriends or even wives that they met on dating sites and they are happy so I guess it's not all bad.

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what is the website of echinadatingsmiley

philbravery:

Im guessing you are in charge of the echina dating site right ? Member since 2012 but only 3 posts answered. Congrats on your promotion in the company

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