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Q: Is it fine for me to date diffrent guys at the same time?

What if many guys like me,is it fine for me to date diffrent guys at the same time before I committed to one guy?

7 years 29 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Victoria

this is a public forum.

you can not prevent people from posting comments.

 

Some of us genuinely want to help you with the best advice we can, but from you all we get is insults because you don't read the replies carefully and react with your first thoughts.

 

As i said on a previous thread of yours, most of the posters here are foreign guys and have given you a very good idea about what they think of Chinese girls.

There are a lot of foreign men happily married with Chinese wives on this site. they have shared their frustrations and concerns on relationships, as well as their joys and hopes for the future.

 

You might not like the advice you receive, but that is the thing about advice, it brings reality and a different perspective to your problem. Yes, you might not agree with it, but courtesy is the key if you expect help from others.

 

If you want people to re-inforce and validate your choices, go to your 'wise friends' with your problems. Not a bunch of diverse foreigners who can share the benefits of their experience with you in the hope that the choices you make will mean your happiness.

 

most of your recent posts have followed a similar pattern:

  you ask for advice

  people give you good advice

  you insult the people for their good advice

  people mock you

  you insult the people for mocking you

 

we can not help you if you don't want to listen to what we say, however painful you find it.

Remember, none of us are under any obligation to help you on this site.

some of us do because we want you to have a happy life

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7 years 28 weeks ago
 
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Fill your boots Vicky.

 

But just be aware it is a high risk strategy.  If you play the game well, the chances are you will only open your legs for guys who can play the game better than you. But they will be skilled in opening legs. So you will lose. 

 

Why not aim for happiness on a bicycle ?  Believe me, one day of happiness on a bicycle is much better than ten years of tears in a BMW.

 

It's up to you. True happiness comes from within. It's not something that other people give.

 

 

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7 years 28 weeks ago
 
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It sounds like threesome.

take a try and let me know too..

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Did you see, your Q is in the 'Answer of the Day' column? That counts!

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Victoria

this is a public forum.

you can not prevent people from posting comments.

 

Some of us genuinely want to help you with the best advice we can, but from you all we get is insults because you don't read the replies carefully and react with your first thoughts.

 

As i said on a previous thread of yours, most of the posters here are foreign guys and have given you a very good idea about what they think of Chinese girls.

There are a lot of foreign men happily married with Chinese wives on this site. they have shared their frustrations and concerns on relationships, as well as their joys and hopes for the future.

 

You might not like the advice you receive, but that is the thing about advice, it brings reality and a different perspective to your problem. Yes, you might not agree with it, but courtesy is the key if you expect help from others.

 

If you want people to re-inforce and validate your choices, go to your 'wise friends' with your problems. Not a bunch of diverse foreigners who can share the benefits of their experience with you in the hope that the choices you make will mean your happiness.

 

most of your recent posts have followed a similar pattern:

  you ask for advice

  people give you good advice

  you insult the people for their good advice

  people mock you

  you insult the people for mocking you

 

we can not help you if you don't want to listen to what we say, however painful you find it.

Remember, none of us are under any obligation to help you on this site.

some of us do because we want you to have a happy life

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No problem - expat guys do it every day in China. But please take me off your short list and pray you don't get AIDS.  1 in 27 Chinese people under age 35  are HIV positive in large cities you know.

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Victoria, I've made a point of not commenting on any of your questions since most of them are totally ridiculous but I couldn't help myself this time. You've made it abundantly clear that you're in no shape to be dated by anyone. Sort your life out and grow up. 

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And to think that when she was banned you all asked for her back...

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Really??

 

I've been gone for months, and when I return, it's still the same stuff.....

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You are having another of your tantrums because you do not like the replies you are getting. For gods sake Victoria grow up. People have every right to hold differing opinions to yours. When you post a question on a forum such as this asking for opinions that is exactly what you are going to get. Some you will like some you will not. Are you now going to do what you did before, stomp off in a little girls huff and not post here any more because the nasty people were being mean to you. Wah wah wah, mummy make the nasty people stop.

 

The reason you find it so hard to  even start a real relationship is because you are a self centered little girl with the social skills of a twelve year old. This may come as a surprise to you but when a man wants to find a woman for a real relationship, that is what he wants a woman, not some petulant little kid that shouts not fair every time she cant get her own way.

You should listen to Sorrel, among others, who has given you great advice. She has far more patience with you than I have. Sorrel you really are a lady.

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Vicky, please accept my sperm donation. I'll knock you up so you can get a green card.

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yeah its ok to date several at least you learn and pick the best

 

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Of cousre, just practice safe sex..You'll have a better chance to meet your match...

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Yes , pls consider me also.

 

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Don't  be such a bitch

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https://nypost.com/2018/08/20/woman-dupes-dozens-of-dudes-into-weirdest-tinder-date-ever/

 

I think this is a social justice warrior technology mate finding app for the future.

 

Funny, it seems the left have made voluntary human flesh auctions a new norm based on political beliefs, ancestry, and education, just put the pieces all in one place and started the kill switch.

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