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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Which would you rather date if you had a choice: a young Chinese girl or an older Chinese woman?
Young: under 25
Older: over 45
10 years 24 weeks ago in Relationships - Other cities
Well that's a tough one, I might have to get back to you on that. I mean, young girls have the smooth skin, perky breasts, youthful energy and general sense of positivity for the future, but then older women do have the greater wisdom that comes with age. That is a toughy, that reallllly is.
But nope, i'm decided; if I wanted 'wise' i'd shag Gandhi, give me the young bird.
Cheers.
In ancient times a sage said "Better two of 25 than one of 50" I think those words still hold true.
mArtiAn:
That's too much maths for me. All I know is 2 x wife = 1 x outnumbered husband.
Young. 20-25.
Dated an older chick once... no thanks ever again. The maturity is a big issue, but meh.
Young for sure, although they exhibit childish behavior that tends to peeter out as they get over 35 I would still rather be in bed with a young 20 year old anyday!
Victoria1987:
Well,I prefer man under 30,the skin is better
Ladies have choice as well.None. I would rather die alone or be a gay, or go stick to old traditional self satisfaction methods but not Chinese girl: young or old; One or thousands and thousands: never ever. My nature/behavior/philosophy/lifestyle etc etc are simply not compatible with Chinese girls. Uppsss.......no chance to date anymore here. I am already having big dreams outside China by the middle of next year.
What's up with Haku? None? Sheeit, mofo. U mad?
Anyway, to the question: What kind of dumbass question is that?
Slightly under ripe (18-to-21), ripening (21-to-25), ripe (25-to-32), deliciously ripe (33-to-40). Anything above 40 is a bonus until you reach the 50 mark and that's when you start ordering the marital aids on Taobao - just ask Royce... Royce? Watcha got to say for yourself, homie?
royceH:
Heheheh.... In fact we had a look at some of that stuff the other night.
It was terrific and didn't take long for one thing to lead to another and before we knew it 'ol Jed was a millionaire!
Didn't actually order anything though.
Hakupatasa:
Nothing wrong Red_Fox. It was just a sum up of past experiences and old age lessons. Because I am fixed of moving out next year, I haven't been thinking anything about girls here. Sex/GF from this part of the world is all out of the equation.
Anyway, I can't think about that now otherwise I will ruin the present relationship who is not from China.
Well if to go to that question in hypothetical terms: all were fantastic in one way or another: 18 - 35; first attempt to single mom of two kids. No experience above 35 so could not tell about it.
Red_Fox:
@Haku: Yeah, I know what you mean. No offence intended, btw, by my initial response to your post. You just sorta kinda get fed up with certain characteristics that are national in nature and are fairly generalized (every nation has national characteristics) and you simply decide that enough is enough. Not your cup of tea anymore. Good luck to you, man.
I hung-out w/ a Cougar in North Carolina for about a year a long time ago when I was in my 20's. Hell of a time ! She had a good job,,, power-plant I was contracting at,, a brand-new Camaro, her own condo. Loads of fun that lady and her best-friend... me and my bro dated her and best-friend, damn, we had some times! going out dancin' and drinkin' back when that was still acceptable and the cops weren't fkn crazy..
don't knock the Cougar until u give 'em a chance. definitely knew her way around the bedroom and knew Fun was for Fun. nothing much expected; nothing much griped about. those were the Days my friend....
what about in the between?I think it is quite shallow to judge that way.A woman with the young apperance and wisdom is much more attracive and sexy in my eyes.It has something to do with the age and life experiences I would sayWhen I was under 23,I was a fool.
mArtiAn:
You're asking for trouble here, love, so i'm gonna get a word in before you get cut to shreds. You're handle is Victoria1987, so i'm guessing you're 26. Three years ago you were a fool? But now in your wordly wisdom you've chosen to come onto an expat site that is quite obviously unsympathetic to your obvious desire to better yourself financially by way of hooking a dude with some dosh, and you want to earn credibility by suggesting that a desire to wed a younger women is shallow?
Well shit on a stick, i've got to hand it to you; you've just pointed out the flaw in the argument of the echina masses, because I suddenly realize that as an ex-pat with a wife fifteen years younger than himself, i'm actually no less shallow than you.
Keep on trucking, Vicky.
brother1818:
I think you, mArtiAn, just became my favourite user on ECC.
Scandinavian:
@maRtIan: How can you be sure that the 1987 is any use to judge Vix' age? I mean "brother1818" is then just a couple of years from his 200th birthday.
Victoria1987:
You want to have young woman,well,what I want to say is many young women only want young men,so how old are you?hahaAre you so confidence to get some young women?
In Shanghai,I have seen many old expat guys be with some young women,Is that love?Maybe,but the percentage is so low.probally they are going for the blue card,especialliy girls from those poor places of China do that.lol,what a funny scene?I will never go for a sugar daddy.lolAnd why should I?I am young attractive,why not go for young expat guy?I can live by my own.hahaha.Be careful with poor young girls in China,lol,good luck,or just prepare the cash for doing shopping for them.wooo.liberation for sugar daddy and sweat young girls.jajajaja...XOXOTedDBayer:
Victoria, try some older guys. If you have any maturity, it will show and I think it would be better for you.
I'd go for the older one every time if I had the choice.
Before I lived in China I spent a couple of years on the Sunshine Coast and man, middle aged women are hot! Way better fun in the sack.
Middle aged Chinese women are such a turn on. So sexy. I just wanna have one right now!
But instead, I'm off to work.
Red_Fox:
Royce, You are a naughty boy! I'm gonna tell your wife on you! (Not really.)
royceH:
It's cool Red, tell her. She'll then want to give me a decent paddling, and I'll deserve it.
Chinese womans faces melt like candles after the age of 40.
I would rather date a nice handsome, intelligent, wealthy body-builder type, preferably Asian. Not interested in dating women, ha ha ha.
Belle
royceH:
You're depriving yourself Belle and don't know what you're missing.
Red_Fox:
@Royce: My man, you is spendin waaaayyy too much time on Taobao lookin at all they funnyass shit...
Given those 2 choices, then younger, over 45 Chinese women usually means over. They bloat up pretty fast.
hunkydory13:
Bloat up pretty fast, do they? And I suppose guys the same age don't bloat up, get beer guts, love handles, double chins and wrinkles? And still think they're a right catch?
TedDBayer:
Mens asses don't end up looking like a clydesdale's. Hi Ho Silver
why not choosing the one who is almost the same age as yours ? as long as you have a lot in common and can hold conversation with each other.
Mmmm you know I'm really not sure this is enough information to go on. I mean do they have pets? Does one have a predilection for doilies? You need to know this kind of stuff. But generally speaking the younger one!