Man, your question is complex. You flip and flap about, how do you know who wants a specific relationship?, if they do, why are saying they are creepy, maybe they are like you and want to marry someone

I see nevermind's point . How can you say "I want a Chinese wife/gf" before you even know the person ? It means you are basing it solely on the fact that the woman is Chinese . Idk if creepy's the word , it more or less is just strange and doesn't make any sense .

Nevermind, what is wrong wanting to have a Chinese GF? and for that matter saying you want one? Some guys go to another town to score a girl for the night, are they sleeze? Maybe!
I just find that your question is loaded!! Of course people sail the World and do things we might think aren't ethical or morally right. Answers, you get on this forum aren't that nice, with what they say about the Chinese Girls, but all forums are the same.!

When i visited China afew years ago i thought in general Chinese girls were much more to my liking than the ones i knew back home in the UK, i liked China and see it as a good place for my 'future' family to be so i decided to move to China and look for a Chinese wife...

If in the time before i found a wife I met a nice English girl i dont think i would want to date her to see if i really loved her or not as i am already set on the idea that a Chinese wife will be better for many things over the course of our lives together...

Maybe its creepy but im specifically after Chinese girls...

As for Chinese girls looking for foreign boyfriends/husbands the number seems to far outweigh the number of guys looking specifically Chinese girls...A LOT certain dont care about anything much more than they are foreign ideally not Asian...

Ok I haven't played the "lets see how many chinese girls I can sleep with game" since 2008. Actually since then, I've kept serious relationships with European women (though the current one still fights me tooth and nail saying she's South American). Anyway, I just wanted to give you some background so I can defend these people you say are "creepy" without you thinking I'm just defending myself.

Let's start with someone being physically attracted to one certain race of people over another...do you call that creepy? Cause if you get down to it, most people are. Then we can even narrow it down further with individual preface of language or culture (for how hard it's to learn and for what a joke this once great culture has become... to each his own).

So let's back up and say a guy finds Asian women more attractive, and the generic Eastern culture more appealing for how he would like his wife to be. Then let's think, what country would have the largest population to possibly find his soul mate in that would fit within this criteria? Maybe China... just maybe. So if you have a slight case of yellow fever and enjoy the Asian lifestyle, so far China is sounding like a good place to meet a variety of girls and find that special one. So without becoming creepy, just following this, you still have the best chance to find the personality that would be best for your future wife by saying you want a Chinese bride.

And that's not even taking into consideration the idea of the class system in China and the idea that so many Chinese girls would love to have a Western husband to break her out of class.

I like Asian guys. I just think they are more good looking. I also think that marrying someone from another country is cool, and their accent when they speak English is cute. What's wrong with that? Does that mean I am creepy? Or is it only creepy when a guy is interested in Chinese girls?

I think it would be weird for someone in China to say "Hmm, I really want an Argentinian girlfriend."

I guess some people come to China with that mindset though..."I like Kung-fu and Chinese food, I should get a China girl!"

Or maybe they just heard stories about some fat bald guys in their 50s marrying beautiful 20 year olds and that suits them.

you can't compare asian woman with western, asian are more patient,loyal,as western are ruff and have no commitment it depends why guys want have asian girl freind , if for one night stand? is different story,, sorry to western ladies who read this comment.

I understand that some men have certain features that they like in women. That's cool, whatever. It's only when that's all they're into when things start to get weird. If a guy refuses to even consider dating anyone other than Chinese girls it's just creepy. And chances are if he ever does hook up with a Chinese girl then she'll eventually find out how creepy he is. But that's just me.

I keep thinking about this weird guy I went to high school with. He was all into Japanese anime, had Asian porn on his PSP, bragged about how he was moving to Japan or China or wherever and how he was going to have a bunch of Asian girlfriends. You know, that kind of guy. We have to be careful that we don't turn into him.

Hey, I love women...period.
If I was stationed in Tuktoyuktuk, I would love Eskimo girls (OK maybe not).
When I lived in Hawaii, I became enamored with the Japanese/Hawaiian/Caucasian mix girls.
When I went to college in SoCal, I was hooked on blonde bubble butt beach bums with fake tits...and Latino girls too.
Before coming to China I had NO interest in Chinese women, but you know what, they grew on me.
Damn, those YCG's (Young Chinese Girls) are the cutest thing I have ever seen!
I am currently stationed in the YCG capital of the world in Shenzhen. First 2 months in China I hated it here, but after that I found a cure...bagging YCG's (more than I am comfortable admitting to)....lots of fun.
Then I found a Chinese girl that I connected with and now she is my girlfriend (although I am thinking of trading her in for a cute little Philippino maid in HK ).
My good friend back home moved to Asia 12 years ago to teach English, only because he loved Asian women...and you know what...he married one a few years ago!! Nothing wrong with being attracted to a certain race of women...to each their own.

I still don't see whats creepy about anyone being atracted to another human being, Are you homophobic also?? ,,, neither are anyone elses business. 50 year old guys at home marry 20 year old women. is it weird? not my business, they both get what they want.
Going to China was a real life changing experience for me on so many levels.
I'm attracted to petite thin women with black hair that are prissy, even slutty if she dresses nice.. All the women I know at home are mostly tall with full figures. The way North Americans dress has become very casual. I used to have nice clothes to wear. I can't even find much in clothing that I like. I do not remember the last time I saw a woman wear a dress at home. Female office workers dress like they are going to the cottage.
If you read my profile then you know my first girl friend was a seal. There are vertually no women that I want to date here. During my life I have only slightly known two Chinese women.
Now imagine me standing on a street corner in China with my mouth open and women coming up to me and offering me money to take me home,, well not really my exaggeration humour again,,,,I met a woman that I dated and one of the first questions she asked is why are you not married ( I never asked her) to which I replied there are no women where I live, and I tell her watch this,,,I take my finger and point at the women going by on bikes and say ''pretty girl,pretty girl,pretty girl,pretty girl,pretty girl,",it's not like this at home. So I do realize that I like Chinese women, but because they fit my ideal, not because they are Chinese. Is it creepy that I find certain physical qualities attractive?No and none of anyones business, But then anything is better than dating a seal,, talk about bad breathe.

1) I was particularly creeped out by a 5'1, 350 lbs. co-employee who wouldn't shut up about his brothelling, and his fondness for "sailor moon pussy".

2) I was equally creeped out by some ex-pats I've met who define liking Asian girls as "a weird fetish" and insist on racial purity.

3) I'm tripply creeped out about the fact that those kinds of discussions about race, on either side of the fence, would be pretty taboo in any English-speaking country.

Anyway, I'm so bored of race relations. I have a dream that people will stop talking about such a dull boring thing.

if i ever marry again it would be with an asian woman. the reason is simple i love big butt and tits with asian features. eyes, shortness etc. i like the mannerisms of asian women (some not all) . asian women age better. in asian cultures like chinese culture they women are taught to devote themselves first to the relationship and family and not themselves. makes for a better marriage.
i am a simple guy, all i want is drama, free hassle free sex everyday. i'm not rich, in fact i'm poor so the best way for me to do that is in a relationship with the right woman (more likely than not she will be chinese since i'n in china for the next 5 years)

Yellow fever...

If you're married to a Chinese woman, then can you not see why some people may like them?

I can't agree more

This is why I have a theory....95% foreigners in this land are some creeps here or there... How sad are Chinese girls who are in favor of these creepies....

chinese girls are pretty enough to be attracted to, whats wrong in them , they are beautiful , sexy figures, some having long legs, soft milky skins....... they are worth attraction

Most people have preferences. I bet u do. We are attracted or turned off by age, wealth, beauty, religion, height, weight, intelligence, nationality, colour, culture, and probably many more subliminal attributes a person might have.

You know what...if I was 50+ years old...had no wife or gf, and if you told me I could find a hot 22 year girl in China that would dig me...I would move here in a heartbeat.
This is not me, but I applaud those who have done this, and what is wrong with that?
And how many 26+ year old women here are passed over by local men because of cultural stigma's? Divorced? Don't get me started!!

P.S. - I can't let this post die!!

sometimes its fun here to see ppl have extreme ideas : chinese are nothing, chinese women just chase for money, chinese men are shit n treat women like shit. n on the contrary , chinese husbands are best, china is the best place.......funny~~~like the kids playing childish games!

OK CLASS class,behave,, I think when in China, date the Chinese, eat the Chinese food, work for the Chinese is appropriate, However since some of the locals are so jealous, why don't you only date the red headed Scotish girls,, you know the ones with skin as white as snow, tall and thin. They have such wonderful accents. I've always liked women that look like this, never dated one. I know extra creepy also. I'm sure there are thousands of them in China , so go out and make them your own.,,sure she can only cook Haggus, but you won't care. Leave the Chinese girls alone because some bigots here have issues. You wouldn't want to see those bigots get all the red headed Scotish girls ? That would be contrary extra crispy creepy.

most guys who go to china are dorks or nerds in their country. they can't get girls in their own country because they aren't what western women are usually looking for.

Nevermind,

You are the creepy one for not respecting other guy's preferences. I specifically want to marry a Chinese girl. So what? That's just my thing. If another guy wanted only to be with an extraterrestrial, I would respect his preference. To each his own.  On the other side of the fence, there are Chinese girl's who specifically want to marry caucasian Americans. Does that make them creepy? Grow up.

I'm english and after getting divorced I began looking on the internet out of interest to see who was out there. I was looking for a real relationship, not just repeated one night stands. I hooked up to Match.com and from what I read and saw there were many beautiful asian women who said the sort of things I was looking for. Took some advice from a Hong Kong friend in England and it gradually narrowed down to Chinese. I started talking to one or two Chinese women and that narrowed down to one and we have been married for just over five years nowand we live in Nanning after living a while in England. I think for a lot of westerners they are fed up with the selfishness and money grabbing attitude of a lot of western women. yes I know it can be found here in China too but it is less prevelant, and the genuine girls offer the sort of values that men appreciate, or maybe I just struck lucky. Nothing creepy about it we just want a slightly more old fashioned and genuine attitude than what I found posted by women on some of the dating sites. The American and English women were the worst, all they wanted was to hook up to an open cheque book and a big one at that.

The guys who fetishize Chinese women just need to socialize with Chinese women for an extended period of time and the weirdness you speak of would stop. The only reason for the hentai/asian porn/ super lust for  asian woman is because they're in fantasy land.

For me Asian women are my preference because to me they're the best looking women in the world. But I'm definitely not going to limit myself to Asian women because they're so many hot woman of other races/nationalities. 

I did not read your remarks but I had a look at your question. I think it is just preference from the person who they like and it's also opinionated on what you think about it. 

It's like if somebody said people that like chocolate is a disgusting person. Or if you like fish you are a smelly person. It's all your opinion! But you do have the right of an opinion. 

For me I don't think it's extra creepy I think you had a lot of emphasis on the word extra. Were you being overly dramatic and exaggerating or were you actually being honest?